2025
THE MYSTERY OF ON
On Ben Pelet is a mysterious character in the Tora. Practically nothing is known about him. This week’s Parasha mentions him in the context of Korach’s rebellion: On is a leader from the tribe of Reuben who joins Korach to question Moshe’s political role. After they present their case against Moshe, the anti-Moshe coalition prepares for the next day: in the morning it will be decided – providentially – who is the true leader of Israel. The next day, the Divine Presence reveals itself, confirming Moshe’s designation. Korach, his henchmen, and his followers were punished and lost their lives. The Tora lists those who died in the insurrection, but On Ben Pelet is not mentioned among the dead. Why? What happened to On?
WHY and MORE WHY
One of the most special elements of biblical narrative is that the Tora tells us what the characters said or did in the story, but almost never clarifies why they acted the way they did. Why did Cain kill Abel? Why did the spies refuse to continue into Israel and demoralize the people? In these and many other cases, the text remains silent. It is the Sages of the Talmud or the Midrash who fill these textual gaps with interpretations – historical or allegorical – philosophical ideas or grammatical deductions. And with great humility, they always leave space open for other ideas and opinions. Thus, the Tora always has more to offer. And in every generation it invites “the reader” to become “the writer” and discover a new interpretation of the text.
INFLUENCERS
The Sages explain that behind Korach’s rebellion was his wife. It was she who, out of ambition, jealousy, and envy, pressured him to rise up against Moshe. She not only supported his rebellious thoughts but incited him day after day. She filled his head with words that fed his resentment and pride, making him feel that Moshe and Aharon had taken from him what he deserved. According to the Midrashim, this influencer told him it wasn’t fair that his cousin held all the power and that he, being equally important and from a prestigious lineage, had no leadership role. She awakened in him the desire for greatness until Korach could no longer see reality clearly. The ambition she cultivated in him was what ultimately led to his downfall.
In contrast, the Midrash recounts that On Ben Pelet was saved by his wife. After Korach and his followers confronted Moshe, On returned home and told his wife that the next day the leadership issue would be resolved and that he would try to become one of the leaders of the people. But his wife was unimpressed by the possibility of political prestige. She acted with intelligence and common sense. When her husband expressed his plans, she discouraged him from going against Moshe. This influencer acted not only with common sense but with great strategy. First, she convinced him that regardless of who would be the next leader to replace Moshe, he would still remain in a secondary position. His role would not change, and Korach just wanted to use him.
THE STRATEGY OF ON’S WIFE
Although On agreed with his wife, he told her he still had to be there because he had already committed himself to Korach and his friends. His wife, seeing that On was determined to continue with his plan, said nothing but decided to take matters into her own hands.
What did On’s wife do? Surely that night, she kept him awake as long as possible. And before he went to sleep, she gave him very strong wine, which made him sleep longer than usual. In the morning, when his friends came to get him and wanted to enter the house to wake him up, On’s wife deliberately let her hair down – something a married Jewish woman only does in front of her husband – and out of modesty, On’s friends stayed waiting outside. They asked his wife to wake him up.
I imagine they must have shouted to her from outside the tent, telling her it was already late and the uprising was about to begin. And she must have responded: “Don’t worry. You go ahead; I will wake my husband and he will join you shortly.” And so she managed to keep her husband asleep for a couple more hours: just enough time for the tragic rebellion to end. Thus, with great intelligence and feminine influence, she saved her husband’s life.
Korach’s wife fed her husband’s ambition to rebel against Moshe and led him to his destruction, while On’s wife used all her intelligence, charm, and influence to save him from ruin. And she succeeded!
2020
THE MYSTERY OF ON
On Ben Pelet is a mysterious character. Virtually nothing is known about him. This week’s Parasha mentions him in the context of the Korach rebellion: He is a leader of the tribe of Reuben who, along with Korach, questions the political role of Moshe. After they present their case against Moshe, this anti-Moshe coalition (רק לא משה) prepares for the next day: in the morning, it will be decided – in a Providential way – who the real leader of Israel is. The next day, the Divine Presence confirms Moshe’s appointment. And Korach, his accomplices, and his followers were severely punished and lost their lives. The Tora names those who perished in the insurrection. But On Ben Pelet is not mentioned among the deceased. Why? What happened to On?
WE DO NOT KNOW WHY
One of the most special characteristics of the biblical narrative is that the Tora tells us what the characters in the story said or did, but it almost never mentions “why” individuals acted the way they acted: Why did Cain kill Abel? Why did the spies reject Israel and demoralize the people? On these and many other occasions, the text remains silent regarding the “why”. The Sages of the usually come to the rescue and fill these textual gaps with novel interpretations – historical or allegorical- philosophical ideas or grammatical insight. And with great humility, they said there is always room for new ideas and opinions. And this is how in every generation, we “the readers” are invited to become “the writers,” discovering new hidden angles of the text.
A SIXTH SENSE
Going back to On Ben Pelet, the Midrash says that On was saved by his wife. After Korach confronted Moshe, On Ben Pelet returned to his house and told his wife that the next morning the matter of leadership would be resolved, and he would try to become one of the heads of the community. On’s wife was not carried away by the ambition of political prestige. Incidentally, the Sages also said that Korach’s wife , out of envy and personal ambition, was the one who pushed her husband to accuse Moshe of nepotism and usurpation of power. She convinced Korach to do everything possible to replace him. On’s wife, on the other hand, acted in the opposite way. She discouraged her husband from going against Moshe. On’s wife proceeded, not only with common sense but also with great intelligence. When her husband told her of his plan, she strategically explained to him that no matter the first leader, he would remain in second place. His case was a lost cause.
ON’S WIFE STRATEGY
Her husband agreed. However, he said he still needed to be present because he gave his word to Korach and his friends…. Seeing that On was determined to go ahead with his plan, the wife said nothing to him, but she decided to take matters into her own hands. What did On’s wife do? That night, she kept him awake for as long as possible. And before going to sleep, she gave him a very strong wine to drink, which made him sleep more than usual. In the morning, when his friends came looking for him and wanted to go into his house to wake him up On’s wife deliberately let her hair down –something a married Jewish woman only does in front of her husband– and On’s friends had to wait outside *. At that moment, they must have asked the wife, shouting from outside the tent, to wake On up, that it was already late, that the riots were about to begin. And she must have told them: “Don’t worry! You go ahead, and I will wake my husband right away. He will meet you there promptly”. She managed to keep her husband asleep for a couple of hours until the end of the mutiny. And thus, with intelligence and feminine intuition, she saved her husband.
While Korach’s wife encouraged her spouse to rebel against Moshe, leading her husband and her entire household to destruction, On Ben Pelet’s wife used all her intelligence, her charm, and every trick in the book to save his life!
I vividly remember watching an episode of the TV show Little House on the Prairie many decades ago. In this particular episode, “The Handyman” (Season 4, Episode 4), which originally aired in 1977, a man approached the Ingalls’ house. Caroline, Michael’s wife, was the only one at home as her husband was away. Unlike her usual practice of tying her hair back, Mrs. Ingalls had her hair loosely flowing – it was the first time she was seen with her hair down. Upon seeing her, the man commented on her hair and made her feel uncomfortable. This scene would serve as an incredible illustration of a part of our story.
