Rosh Hodesh Kislev
Adapted from “Rosh Chodesh”, an article by Dina Coopersmith
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Today is the 30th day of Nisan, 5771 ROSH CHODESH IYAR 15 days of Omer (2 weeks, 1 day)
“Whereas the sun is the symbol of unchanging nature, rising in the east, setting in the west, day in and day out every day of the year, the moon changes and it seems to be telling us something: You can be small and you can diminish until you almost disappear, but then, when things look their darkest, hope springs eternal. You can start looking up again. You can change a situation and yourself for the better, no matter how bad it seems. Nothing is static or set in stone. Human beings have free will and therein is their power of renewal — an ever-present struggle against the steady, cyclical, repetitive and predictable march of time and nature.
The solar system determines the year, in Hebrew “shana,” which comes from the same root as “to repeat, to go over,” whereas the moon sets the months, “Chodesh” from the Hebrew root “chadash,” — new, change, different.
The Jewish people are compared to the moon. Though they are small, and suffering has been an integral part of their history among the nations, the Jew knows never to give up. As an individual and as a nation, he will rise up again and light up the night”.
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1st of Kislev, 5771 – Second day of Rosh Chodesh
During Rosh Chodesh we are indicated to behave and be in a happier mood (raui lismoach bahem). We are not forbidden to work on Rosh Chodesh, as in formal Yamim Tobim, however, it is meritorious -although not mandatory – to celebrate Rosh Chodesh with a special meal(Shulchan Arukh, OH. 419, 1). This is done by having some foods on Rosh Chodesh which are considered luxuries foods, particularly meat and wine. That is the reason, by the way, Sephardic communities avoid eating meat during the month of Ab, only from the second day of Ab, once Rosh Chodesh is over.
It is forbidden to fast on Rosh Chodesh. It is also customary to avoid visiting the cemetery on Rosh Chodesh. Most cemeteries are closed for visits on Rosh Chodesh.
When the anniversary of a loved one (sal, yehrtziat) falls on Rosh Chodesh it is customary to fast or visit the cemetery before or afterRosh Chodesh.
For this same reason -some exceptional cases apart- eulogies should not be delivered on Rosh Chodesh. Depending on the circumstances, rabbis will rather deliver a Debar Torah -general words of Tora wisdom- in honor of the deceased, minimizing personal emotional remarks, which might cause an additional sadness to the audience.
Chodesh Tob!!!
Today is the 1st day of the month of Elul (Rosh Chodesh Elul), 5770
Rabbi Yehoshua en Korcha said that after receiving the 10 commandments Moshe Rabbenu stayed in Mount Sinai for 40 days. There, God taught him the Oral Law: the meaning and performance of all the 613 Miztvot. At the end of 40 days Moshe went down and encountered the people of Israel worshiping the golden calf. At the sight of such offense to God, Moshe broke the tablets containing the 10 commandments. It was the 17th of Tamuz.
A few weeks later, in the beginning of the month of Elul, God told Moshe to ascend once again Mount Sinai where he stayed again for 40 days. What did Moshe do during those 40 days? He begged God Almighty to forgive Israel for their terrible sin. Moshe argued with God and advocated for the Jewish people, invoking the merit of their ancestors Abraham Ytzchak and Yaakob.
At the end of the forty days, God finally absolved the people of Israel. That day, the 10th of Tishri, is Yom Kippur , the day of forgiveness.
In remembrance of those 40 days during which Moshe Rabbenu begged God to pardon Israel, we dedicate 40 days to ask God for our own forgiveness. This process of personal repentance –Teshuva- begins tomorrow and ends on Yom Kippur.
Tomorrow morning BH, we start saying Selichot, the prayers that inspire us to reflect on our lives and embark on the process of repentance.
Today is the 30th day of Av (Rosh Chodesh Elul), 5770
Originally, all months were established according to the moon. The English word ‘month’ and the word ‘moon’ are cognates (they share the same etymological origin).
When the ending month is 29 days long, Rosh Chodesh of the new month will always be celebrated for one day: the first day of the new month.
When the preceding month has 30 days, then Rosh Chodesh of the new month will be celebrated for two days. In this case, the 30th day of the preceding month will be called Rosh Chodesh of the coming month.In the Hebrew calendar normally but not necessarily, a 29 days month will be followed by a 30 days month, etc.
(That use to be also the case with the Gregorian calendar until Augustus Cesar -year 8 BCE- got jealous of Julius Cesar and demanded that the month established in his honor be 31 days long, the extra day was discounted from February…).
Illustration: we are finishing today the month of Av. Av has 30 days. Today is the 30th day of Av which is ‘also’ Rosh Chodesh Elul. Tomorrow, the 1st day of Elul will be the 2nd day of Rosh Chodesh Elul.