PESAH EVE: What do we have to do today?
In order to persuade the Egyptians to let the Jewish people go out of Egypt, the Almighty inflicted upon them ten plagues. The last one, the plague that finally convinced the Egyptian monarch to let the Israelites go, was the death of the first-born. The Tora describes the plague or sickness that affected the first-born as mash-hit, literally , “a destroyer” (Ex. 12:23). Obviously, we, the Jewish people, do not believe in powers independent from God. However, in order to fit our limited understanding, the Biblical text often attributes certain actions to God’s shelihim or proxies. The “destroyer” (The rabbis nicknamed it elsewhere the angel of death), describes one of God’s action, death, thru a linguistic proxy. We say angel of death, or mash-hit but we are referring ultimately to God’s actions. Illustration: In the South African courtroom, when Oscar Pistorius talks to the prosecutor (a man) he says: “My Lady”. Why? Because although the accuser is talking to the prosecutor, he has to address always the Judge, which in this case, is a woman. Similarly, althought the Tora describes the actions as done by a mash-hit/ destroyer, or a wind that God used to split the sea, etc. these actions referred and should always be ascribed to God.
Back to Pesah. In America, Pesah is known as “Passover”. It is thought that at the time of the death of the first born, while God was inflicting the blow of death to the Egyptians, He “passed over” (skipped) the house of the Jews sparing their lives. Allow me to present a slightly different reading of the same verse, based on the Targum Onqelos, the official Jewish translation of the Bible. Onqelos does not translate “Pesah” or “Pasah” as passed-over but us protected (in Aramaic, hais, like, adam has al mamono, “a person cares and protects his assets”). Thus, the verse Ex. 12:23 should be translated in this way “When the Lord goes through the land to strike down the Egyptians, He will see the blood on the top and sides of the doorframe and He will PROTECT that doorway, and He will not permit the destroyer to enter your houses and strike you down” (see also Ex. 11:27). Accordingly, God (linguistically) acted thru His destroyer to inflict death, but He Himself (so to speak) cared for and protected His chosen People. That is why Pesah, particularly the first night of Pesah, is also called in the Tora “lel shimurim”, the night of Protection.
I prefer this translation because when Pesah is understood as “Divine Protection” it gives a clearer meaning to this beautiful Holiday: Pesah celebrates God’s Protection to the Jewish people, from the eve of the exodus of Egypt until our own days.
But, how should we do that? How should we teach our children Jewish History (or Jewish memory) in the era of youtube, Instagram and iPads? In a time where their attention span is so short and erratic…
The secret for a successful and meaningful Pesah Seder could be summarized with three words: Preparation. Preparation. Preparation.
Some ideas
1. DIVIDE AND CONQUER: Write an email, text or whatsapp today to each member of your family and guests. Assign to each one of them one part of the Haggada. Ask them to be ready to read and/or explain at least one short text of the Hagada in Hebrew, English, etc. Encourage them to search at least in the following websites: www.torah.org, aish.com, ou.org, for material related to the texts they will read. The little ones should prepare themselves to sing (and perhaps explain) ma nishtana’ or ‘abadim hayinu or had gadya. Those who have difficulties reading Hebrew should search online and be ready to explain one particular idea of the hagada (=Pesah, matsa, maror, 4 cups, eating reclined, haroset, etc.).
2. MAKE IT RELEVANT: Encourage some of the participants of the Seder, even your prospective guests, to briefly (5 minutes, max!) debate among themselves one subject related to the Exodus from Egypt, which is still relevant today.
Two examples.
a. rab ve’atsum mimenu (Ex. 1:10). “Although they were only a small minority, the Egyptians feared that the Jews were too powerful and decided to eliminate them”. Although Jews make less than 3% of the American population the list of “50 Most Influential Commentators in America” (as per Atlantic Magazine, 2010) included 26 Jews. Are we Jews too powerful? Not powerful enough? Is the “Jewish disproportional influence” in larger society an excuse to justify antisemitism? Should we keep it all to ourselves?
b. Vayare’u otanu hamitsrim vaya’anunu (Deut. 26:6). “The Egyptians demonized us and oppressed us”. Since the beginning of our history, our enemies first demonizing us to justify their animosity against us. Is “demonization of the Jews” a strategy that is still used by anti-Semites to justify their hatred? Is Israel, “the Jew among the nations”, demonized today in media, UN, etc. to justify anti-semitic behavior?
3. MAKE IT FUN: Ask the funniest guys of the family to play some parts of the Haggada, for example, the Ten Plagues. Have someone (a more serious guy) to explain briefly each plague while the actors play the play. One person has to play Moshe (with his head covered with a Talit) and someone else Pharaoh (use your imagination…). Make it visual. Get small plastic frogs, animal masks for deber and ping pong balls for hail. Make it short. No more than 5 -7 minutes play.
Have games for the children, a Pesah treasure hunt or Pesah trivia, etc. To find great games you must see THIS and THIS. Have 20 questions ready, and most importantly 20 (or more) small prizes to reward the correct answers. Anytime the Seder is about to get out of control, or boring or you need everyone’s attention you can ask one of your questions (show the prize first!). Guaranteed to work..
4. MAKE IT DEEP: Recommended modern Haggadot: Rabbi Shimon Appisdorf see here.
Rabbi Jonathan Sacks See here
For the advanced students I recommended THIS old but fantastic Sephardic commentary of the Haggada written by Rabbi Don Ytshaq Abarbanel (1437-1508). I’m going to use it this year. Do not skip the introduction (the tragic personal story of the author). Easy Hebrew. Courtesy of www.hebrewbooks.org .
For the rest of the Seder click HERE
Recommended list of foods for Ashkenazi Jews from cRc, Chicago, rabbi Gedaliah Shwartz. Click here
Recommended list of foods for Sephardic Jews. By Rabbi Yehudah Boroosan. Click here
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השאור שבעיסה
We have explained that during Pesah it is strictly forbidden to eat any food that is or contains Hamets. Why? Beyond the well known historical reasons (Ex.12:39) our Rabbis saw in Hamets a very meaningful representation. The Rabbis compared Hamets with arrogance and vanity; the inflated dough with the individual who allows his ego to expand. Arrogance and Hamets are both mere air, an illusionary inflation of the self.
But why should we be thinking about arrogance/humbleness specifically in Pesah? Not every person is exposed to the risk of becoming arrogant. A Jewish slave in Egypt, for example, did not have the luxury to be exposed to vanity. Self-pride is only relevant if you are a free man. In Pesah, we commemorate our freedom from physical slavery, bearing in mind that as free individuals we might easily fall pray to a different kind of slavery, a mental self-enslavement, a sort of addiction to the inflatable aspects of our self. In Pesah, while celebrating freedom, we also become conscious of the risks to become arrogant by this sort of psychological Hamets.
Modern society, in its relentless efforts to turn us into loyal consumers, contributes a great deal to the feeding of our pride. Training us into being more egocentric and more hedonistic, into thinking that we are entitled to have everything we need, we wish and we want as long as we are able to afford it. This power might easily deteriorate into arrogance.
The Matza, a flat, thin and unpretentious bread, represents humbleness. Humility does not mean to allow ourselves to be degraded; it means that we realize the true dimension of human life, becoming aware of our inescapable mortality and recognizing that while alive we are totally dependent on God.
Humility is also the essence of a healthy dose of self-esteem, a prerequisite for being in peace with oneself. The arrogant individual is insecure and yearns for public praise and the applause of others, sometimes desperately, in order to compensate for his low self-esteem. Only the humble one, the person who does not need to seek people’s praise to feel better, is truly free. He is able to change and constantly improve himself. The arrogant person, on the other hand, is psychologically unable to admit mistakes and therefore, incapable of change. He ends up adapting himself, enslaving himself, to his own shortcomings. Arrogance is a Pharaoh that condemns our personality to stagnation.
Moreover, while the humble person knows that every human being deserves dignity and respect and has the right to be listened and understood, the arrogant individual becomes an exclusive servant of his own inflated reflection. Arrogance is a layer of silver behind a glass which only mirrors our own reflection. Arrogance, this type of mental Hamets, is the main barrier between a man and his fellowman, and between man and God.
Pesah is an intense lesson on humility. In the same way we eliminate every crumb of Hamets from our homes, we should erase every trace of vanity from our hearts.
SHABBAT SHALOM
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