Rabbi Obadia Yosef z”l. On The Seventh Anniversary Of His Passing.

PASSION FOR STUDYING Today marks the seventh anniversary of the passing of Rabbi Obadia Yosef z”l, who died at the age of 93. Rabbi Obadia was not only the most illustrious Chief Rabbi of Israel (Rishon LeTsion) in modern times, but also the Rabbi who led the Sephardim in Israel and the diaspora to their original customs and traditions. Rabbi Obadia Yosef’s passion was the study of the Tora, in particular, the legal aspects of Judaism (halakhot). Jewish jurisprudence is a very complex discipline and one needs to read and remember many, many books, some encyclopedic in size, to become a master in this field. Rabbi Yosef was endowed with a prodigious memory that allowed him to quote thousands of rabbinical opinions and rulings by heart. But his exceptional mental talents would not have been enough without his uninterrupted dedication to Tora study. I remember his son, Rabbi Ya’aqob Yosef z”l, with whom I studied for 2 years in Yerushalayim, who told us that his own passion for studying Tora began when he saw his father gently rocking the cradle of one of his little brothers with one hand, while holding and reading a Tora book with the other.

THE IMPORTANCE OF A GOOD TEACHER

From a very young age, Rabbi Obadia Yosef displayed the two most important signs of a great Tora luminary: a passion for Torah study and an exceptional memory. But that was not enough in the 1930s in Israel. In those days of financial depression, the world’s economic situation was chaotic and Israel (in those days“Palestine”) was obviously no exception. The family could not afford to have a child outside the job market… For a time, young Obadia Yosef was allowed to study at the most prestigious Sephardic Yeshiba, Porat Yosef, in the Old City of Jerusalem. But soon after, he was forced to quit his studies and work in his father’s shop in “shekhunat habukharim” in Jerusalem. Porat Yosef was led by a great rabbi born in Aleppo, Syria, Ribbi Ezra Attie z ”l (1887-1970) who besides being a very pious man and one of the greatest Tora scholars of his generation also had the ability to identify the intellectual potential and leadership qualities in his students. During the short time that Rabbi Yosef studied at Porat Yosef, Rabbi Attie identified his charisma, bright mind, and positive character. And when he found out that the young Obadia had to leave his studies to go to work, he became very sad. But he didn’t give up and did the unexpected. Rabbi Attie approached Rabbi Yosef’s father and begged him to let the boy return to the Yeshiba. He told his father: “If you need help in the store, I will stay here and work for you for free. Keeping me away from Tora study matters less than keeping your son away”. Rabbi Yosef’s father couldn’t say no. And realizing his son’s potential as a great Tora scholar, he allowed him to return to his studies. This was probably the most important turning point in Rabbi Yosef’s life.

RETURNING THE CROWN TO ITS ORIGIN

What characterized Rabbi Yosef as the leader of Sephardic Jews was his courage to reclaim the halakhic Sephardic voices of the past as binding in the present. It was not an easy task, considering that at that time he had to openly challenge other rabbinic leaders who also claimed to represent the authentic Sephardic approach. Rabbi Obadia’s main contribution was the restoration of Rabbi Yosef Caro (1488-1575) and his Shulkhan ‘arukh as the highest authority for Sephardic Jews in Israel. “Quibalnu Horaot Maran“, historically Sepharadic Jews agreed to follow the rulings of Rabbi Yosef Caro and to do no less and no more than what is stated in his books.

BEN ISH HAI or SHULCHAN ARUKH?

Uniting the Sephardic Jews of Israel around Shulchan Arukh was one of the main goals —and achievements— of Rabbi Obadia Yosef z”l. Sephardic Jews came to Israel from many countries (Morocco, Algeria, Libya, Syria, Egypt, Iran, etc.) and brought with them multiple local customs, and in many cases, these practices were stricter than what Jewish law requires. Pesach is a good example of these additional restrictions. Jews in Spanish Morocco, for example, used to cover the dining room table with seven tablecloths. Nobody dared to buy sugar or common oil for Passover. And many were using only cleaning products that were certified Kosher for Pesach, etc. Notably, the first book published by Rabbi Obadia Yosef was Jazon Obadia, a book on the laws of Pesach, which when first published in the 1950s was revolutionary. Because Rabbi Yosef directed his readers to renounce additional restrictions (dictated in Ben Ish Hay, or other local rabbinic authorities ) that in his opinion were not applicable in Israel, where Rabbi Yosef Caro was the ultimate authority. Something very similar happened with many laws of Nidda (family purity), Shabbat or Kashrut, just to mention a few examples. I remember once having a private meeting with Rabbi Yosef and I asked him about the Halakhic practical scope of the Ari haQadosh rules and he told me unambiguously that they are applicable “only in the field of liturgy (Tefila) or as a matter of private practice”, for everything else we should strictly follow Shulchan Arukh.

SEPHARADIM OR ASHKENAZIM?

 Another reason why many Sephardic had abandoned their millennial traditions was that the Jewish educational system at the time — Jewish schools and especially Rabbinical Academies – was predominantly Ashkenazi, and the Sephardic halachic tradition was literally in danger of extinction. In the 1950s Rabbi Obadia was criticized by many rabbis, Ashkenazim and Sepharadim, who rejected his halachic authority. Part of his vision was to facilitate the practice of Judaism, something he saw as a very necessary principle for our modern days. In the 1960s and 1970s, his views were considered by many Rabbis as too “liberal”. Decades passed until his voice became the highest and undisputed authority in Sephardic communities in Israel and around the world.

Rabbi Yosef Bitton




Intelligent Judaism

A man once heard of a marvelous blue bird that could be found only in one place in the entire world.  This man decided to try and find this unique bird.  He searched his town, he searched his country, and – obsessed with finding it – he looked for the special bird around the entire world.  After many years, this man decides to return home: defeated, exhausted and older.  Tired, he sat to rest in his balcony, let his gaze wander to his garden, and fell asleep.  As he woke up, he saw next to him the magnificent blue bird.  A bird that had always lived there.  In his own garden.

EXISTENTIAL QUESTIONS

As a teenager, there were a few subjects and themes that captivated me, such as cosmology (how the universe began) and the theory of evolution, particularly, how life began in our planet.  Beyond their technical aspects, these fields touch upon the meaning of existence.  If the world appeared spontaneously, and if life was caused by a series of coincidences, then Creation as told to us by the Tora is not necessary to explain how we got here, or why.  And without Creation, one can question the existence of a Creator.

I was 16-17 years old at the time, and these questions tortured me. 

On the one hand, I felt confident about my Judaism.  My heart was full of Emuna – conviction.  I was very proud of everything Jewish: our People, our Land, our history.  But, on the other hand, I was also held back by many intellectual uncertainties.  Some of my friends and teachers tried to convince me to ignore these questions, since “they were the influence of the Yetser haRa,” the evil instinct.  They said so because they felt ignoring these questions would be for my own benefit, and because most people seemed to get by perfectly well without struggling with these issues. However, none of them was able to persuade me rationally how to defend the Tora’s version of Creation, or why to believe in a Creator when all scientists seemed to support the Big Bang and random evolution.

What was I to do?  Hide my head in the sand, at the expense of my critical thinking, or abandon my Jewish tradition for being incompatible with I had gathered from modern science?  I was at a loss.

So, in 1978, upon finishing high school, I decided to travel to Israel.  I enrolled in Bar Ilan University, hoping to find a place that would harmonize academic rigor with Jewish tradition.  Maybe there I could find answers to my questions.  My flight to Israel had a layover in New York, where my uncle Rabbi Yosef Faur (or Tío José as I called him) lived.  Tío José had graciously offered to host me at his house for a few days, and I accepted.  I had always heard of him, and I had seen him in Argentina a few times when I was a younger boy.  But this was going to be my first “serious” encounter with him.

THE BLUE BIRD

And it was a revelation.  My uncle had answers to all my questions.  Instead of encouraging me to forego my critical thinking, he taught me to make the most of it, and to actually apply it rigorously also to question the many dogmas assumed by science.  He introduced me to the philosophy of science, which was a field of study I had never even heard of before. 

I had always assumed that science was objective, and that scientists were objective.  He taught me that scientists also have their own biases and ideologies, and that I had to learn to differentiate between real science and scientific theories, and that I should train myself to identify ideologically-bent theories. He helped me realize that my critical thinking, which had given me so much grief over the prior years, was in fact my key to finding my answers. 

From him, I also learned to read the book of Bereshit through the eyes and methodology of those Hachamim who had themselves wrestled with the intellectual challenges of their time. Maimonides, Rabbi David Nieto, Rabbi Moshe Hefets, Rabbi Benzion Frizzi, to name just a few. Hakham Faur showed me that dinosaurs were mentioned in the Tora (“HaTaninim HaGedolim”), and explained to me how to resolve the age discrepancies between science and Tora (billions of years, or less stan six thousand?).  And he did all of this without departing a single inch from the Tora or Rabbinic traditions, and without resorting to questionable tricks (which never appealed to me) like saying that each one day on the Tora in reality refers to a million years, or something of the sort.

It occurred to me then that my uncle must have had all these answers because he, too, had already dealt with the very doubts that were bothering me.  And now I didn’t have to start from scratch.  My privilege was that he had given me a head start and I didn’t need to figure things out on my own.  Things he already had. 

I thought I would have to travel around the world to find my blue bird.  But the blue bird was my very own uncle, and the Sephardic tradition he so well knew and represented.

TWO WAYS TO FACE AN ENEMY

I remember one of the first Tora insights that I learned from him, one which accompanied me and will continue to accompany me throughout my life.  It has to do with the Perasha that we read in two Shabbatot, SHELAH LEKHA.

When Moshe sent scouts to investigate the promised land, he instructed them: “Look at the inhabitants who live in that land… and the cities where they live—are they open, or walled?”  The spies return with a very pessimistic report to Moshe and the people.  Among other things, they complain that “the cities are walled up to the sky,” as if to imply that they are impenetrable.  But for Moshe walled cities would have been a sign of weakness.  He told me, “people who hide behind fortified walls are not trained for battle.  They draw their confidence from the strength of their walls.  And if these walls were to fall (say, miraculously), then they would be very easy to defeat in battle.  On the other hand, people living in open cities, without walls, must rely on their own skills to defeat the enemy.  They train for battle, and it is much more difficult to defeat them.”  Immediately afterwards, my uncle explained to me: “There are two ways to confront an ideology that is adverse to you.  The first way, is to build a wall, to surround yourself with cultural walls and take refuge behind them.  The wall will shield you, but only as long as it is there and as long as you don’t venture outside it.  But if it is breached, or if you leave the wall, then you are dangerously vulnerable.  The other strategy is to live in open cities.  But if you are open to being exposed to other ideas, you will make a point to learn how to face and overcome them.  After all, the Tora is the truth–and why then should we be afraid to confront other ideas?” (It is worth noting that the message of this parable is applicable only to the world of ideas, and not to the world of social assimilation.  The social “walls” demanded by the Tora and our sages creating distance between us and other cultures are meant to protect us from assimilation.)

Through my uncle, I discovered an intelligent Judaism.  Thanks to him, I was able to harmonize between my heritage and my intellect.  Because of his words, I fell passionately in love, more than ever, with our Tora and our Hakhamim; and I decided then to become a rabbi, and dedicate my life to teaching Tora.

My book Awesome Creation, in which I explore the tensions and commonalities between Tora and modern science, is in a way also an autobiographical account of my doubts, and the answers that I found over time.  And it was inspired by what I learned, directly or indirectly, from my dear uncle, Hakham Yosef Faur. 

צדיקים אין בונים להם נפש על קברותיהם שדבריהם הם זיכרונם

It is not necessary to erect a monument in the tombs of the just and wise men. The words and ideas they leave us are the true tribute to their memory (Maimonides).




THE HISTORY OF THE MASHADI JEWISH COMMUNITY By Mr. Bernard Livi

In the Beginning (1746 – 1839):

When we study the history of the Jewish people, we encounter many oppressed and persecuted Jewish communities. One of the most famous, of course, is the community of the Marranos of Spain and Portugal of which almost everyone has heard. There is another community of Marranos that practically no one has ever heard of. They are the Marranos of Mashad, or the Mashadi Jews. What you are about to hear is the story of an exceptionally small group of people who were forced to abandon Judaism. This is the story of Anusei Mashad.
This community of Jews comes from the city of Mashad, Iran’s second largest city, and the capital of a province in the northeast region of the country. Iran or Persia is a relatively large country in the Middle East with a population of 67 million. The official religion of Iran is the Shiite branch of Islam and 95% of the population adhere to that religion.
The beginning of Jewish history in Iran dates back to late Biblical times. The Books of Isaiah, Daniel, Ezra, Nehemiah, Chronicles and Esther contain references to the Jewish life in Persia. It is believed that many Jews found their way into Persia after Cyrus the Great, the King of Persia, ended the Babylonian Exile in the Fifth Century B.C.E. The Persian Jews are, therefore, neither Ashkenazi nor Sephardic. A more accurate description of the Persian Jews is probably “Mizrahi” or Eastern Jews. But since their customs and traditions more closely resembles the Jews of Spanish background, they are categorized as Sephardic Jews.
The story begins in the year 1746, nearly 250 years ago, when Nader Shah, the reigning king of the Persian Empire, decided to relocate 40 Jewish families to his new capital, the city of Mashad. These original 40 families were selected by the king because of their honesty and trustworthiness to safeguard and protect the treasury of the king in his new capital.
The city of Mashad, where this story takes place, has a religious significance for its Shiite population. It is the burial site of one of Islam’s most important Imams or religious leaders. The presence of this sanctuary, which brought many pilgrims to the city, made the inhabitants fervently religious. So being among Moslems with deep fundamentalist ideologies, famous for their intolerance of other religions, made the lives of the newly-arrived Jews extremely difficult.
The Shiite population of Mashad considered the Jews unclean and prohibited any contact with this group of people. The Jews were confined to the outskirts of the city in ghetto-like localities. Since they could not engage in business activities with the general population, the newly-arrived Jews very soon developed trade among themselves, and established trade routes with the nearby cities. As the years passed, the Jewish population of Mashad grew in number and established a small synagogue and other institutions for a proper Jewish life.
Even though the religious elements of the city had discouraged any contact with the Jews, the Mashadi Jews proved to be reliable and trustworthy business contacts with excellent credit standings. Very soon the reputation of honesty of these Jews spread throughout the city, and their Moslem neighbors felt more and more comfortable engaging in business with the Jewish community. However, the Jews were still constantly under the watchful eyes of the Moslem population. They would be blamed and attacked for every unfortunate incident, and, like everywhere else, they were the victims of any outburst of bigotry.

Allah-dad (1839 – 1925)

Tolerance for the Jews took a sharp decline in the year 1839, about 160 years ago, when on the 12th day of Nissan, the most traumatic event in the history of the Mashadi Jews took place. On this day, which happened to be a holy day for the Moslems, a rumor was spread during a procession that the Jews were mocking and ridiculing some of Islam’s religious practices. This false accusation was very quickly spread throughout the city and a huge mob assembled at the office of the local religious leaders demanding action against the Jews. On the same day, a permit was granted and an angry mob attacked the Jewish neighborhood. In the course of this event, which was called the Allah-dad, the rioters attacked Jewish homes and shops, destroyed their property, destroyed books and religious articles, and burned the synagogue. By the time the dust settled, 36 Mashadi Jews had lost their lives.
The Jews were given 2 simple choices: conversion or death. The leaders of the Jewish community realized that their only chance of survival at the moment was to embrace Islam. The entire Jewish community of Mashad, which by now consisted of more than 200 families, converted to Islam and started new lives as “Jadid-Al-Islam” or “New Moslems.” This newly adopted faith, however, was only on the surface and for the eyes of their Moslem neighbors. The Jews started to live a double life; on the surface they were Moslems, but in secret they continued to live their lives as true Jews.
But how does one do that? How can a person live among Moslems, pray in their mosques, observe their holidays, and assure their neighbors of their sincerity, and at the same time cling to their Jewish traditions? To do this, the newly-converted Mashadis had to make significant changes in their lifestyle:
      A) First, they had to adopt Islamic names for themselves and their children. Names such as Mohammad, Ali and Hassan are quite common among the older generation of the Mashadi Jews. Some even had to make the required pilgrimage to Mecca and Medina which awarded them the title of Hadji. In addition to their Islamic name, every child born in the community was also given a secret Hebrew name, a practice that is still common among today’s Mashadi Jews.
      B) Then there was the problem of kashrut and keeping a kosher home. The converted Jews had to buy their meat from local non-kosher stores, so that in the eyes of their neighbors, they were not observing any strange dietary laws. But Mashadi women refused to allow any non-kosher meat into their homes. All of this meat was immediately discarded or fed to the dogs. The men of the community learned the practice of shchita, the ritual slaughter of animals, and provided their families and friends with the meat that was prepared under the strictest Jewish dietary laws. For the distribution of this meat they were aided by the Iranian architecture. All houses were built with private courtyards with windows that faced inward instead of toward the street. The houses were connected from the inside which enabled the Jews to gather for secret meetings and distribute the meat without ever going outside.
      C) Then there was the problem of praying in the mosque. The Mashadis had to participate in prayer sessions in the local mosque with their Moslem neighbors, but after attending the Friday prayer in the mosque, they would rush home to their secret gathering places to welcome the Sabbath. These secret minyans were held in dark and dilapidated basements. All the Torah scrolls and prayer books had been destroyed during the riots of 1839, but the Mashadi Jews somehow managed to reproduce their hand-written siddurim and Torah scrolls to be used in their secret gatherings. They even established Torah classes for their children. Of course this education for the children had to start at an age when there was no longer any danger that they might reveal their true identity to their classmates. This usually started around the age of ten, and it was explained to them very carefully not to discuss anything about it in their classrooms. Children studied Islamic subjects in school, but at home they were taught the principles of Jewish religion.
      D) On Shabbat and holidays, since the Jews had to keep their stores open, they often hired help from outside to run the stores for them. The help was instructed to turn potential customers away with various excuses. This way they were able to refrain from engaging in business transactions on Shabbat and holidays.
      E) Funerals were also held twice. After burying their departed in the Moslem cemetery, the Jews would rush home to recite kaddish in the privacy of their home.
    F) Probably the most important concern of the newly-converted Jews was intermarriage. To protect themselves, the Mashadi Jews would often marry off their children at very young ages, around nine or ten. If a suitor approached them for their daughter, they could claim that she was either married or had already been spoken for. This way they kept marriages among themselves. Incidentally, the practice of marrying within the community is exercised even today, and the vast majority of marriages among Mashadis are within the community.
As you can imagine, living a double life was not easy and carried with it enormous risk. The Jews were constantly under the doubtful watch of their Moslem neighbors. Those who had doubts in the sincerity of the new Moslems were always looking for clues to prove that this group of people were practicing Judaism in secret. On many occasions, the Jews encountered serious threats from their neighbors and local authorities who had become suspicious of their practices and their true identity. Miraculously, the true identity of the Jews was never revealed.
The question arises as to why the Jews of Mashad didn’t leave and start a new life somewhere else. Of course it is never easy to leave one’s birthplace and venture into a new and unknown world. Besides, the authorities had forbidden the Jews to leave town, and would punish anyone who was caught fleeing the city. And even if they did decide to leave, the nearest town in which the Jews lived in a relatively freer society was a 12-day journey away. Amid all the risks, some Jewish families did leave their birthplace and sought refuge in other nearby cities.
Those who did stay, however, did not lose hope that someday they would be free to practice Judaism in the open. They continued to live as Moslems but they never forgot their true identity. They continued to teach their children, and continued to assemble secretly for Shabbat and holiday services. At one point, the Mashadi Jews had 11 secret synagogues in their neighborhood.

Reza Pahlavi (1925 – 1946 )

The Jews of Mashad lived a double life and under difficult conditions for nearly one hundred years. Their situation did not improve drastically until Reza Pahlavi, the father of the recent Shah of Iran, ascended to power in 1925, and a period of religious freedom was inaugurated. The Jews of Mashad came out of the closet, so to speak, and started to practice their religion freely, under the protection of the new regime and the new king. With the start of this period, the Jewish life in Mashad was revitalized. The Jews of Mashad who had been disguised as Moslems for over a century, began with new excitement to lead a productive Jewish life.
Unfortunately, this freedom also had to come to an end. During World War II, anti Jewish sentiments once again flared up in Mashad. Through radio broadcasts, the Jews were accused of spying for the enemy, and were blamed for the hardship that was brought upon the nation.
Again in the month of Nissan in the year 1946, another mob attacked the Jewish neighborhood. The Jews finally realized that they would no longer be safe in the city, and the time had come for them to move to another city. By this time, the Jewish population of Mashad had reached 3000, and many of them had established business contacts in Tehran. Therefore, their relocation was not as difficult. The mass migration of the Mashadi Jews to Tehran started in 1946 and in a few years almost all the families had left the city.
In Tehran and during the rule of the Shah, the Jews enjoyed a period of freedom and religious tolerance. Jews became prosperous during this period and started trade with other countries. More than 10 Mashadi synagogues were established in Tehran and a number of Jewish schools opened during this period. Mashadi Jews, following a tradition of isolation, remained very close to each other even in the free society of Tehran.
With the establishment of the State of Israel, many Mashadi Jews emigrated to the Jewish State, and today the majority of the Mashadi Jews, nearly 10,000, live in Israel. Later on some Mashadis went to Europe and established Mashadi communities in Hamburg, Germany, in London and in Milan, Italy.
The recent history of the Mashadi Jews took another turn with the Islamic Revolution in 1979 which brought the majority of the remaining Mashadi Jews to the United States. At first they settled in Kew Gardens, Queens, and as their businesses developed, they started migrating to the Great Neck area.
The entire history of the Mashadi community spanned only two centuries and the size never exceeded a few hundred families. And yet the community has a unique significance among the communities of Jewish Diaspora. Unlike the original Marranos, who after one generation lost touch with their Jewish past, the Marranos of Mashad survived as Jews. Today there are 3700 Mashadi Jews living in New York. Every member of this cohesive community is proud of his or her unique history. Every member takes pride in belonging to a group of people whose ancestors fought the pressure of their surroundings, and, against all odds, did not abandon Judaism.

 




Rabbi Moshe Mitrani and what to do in times of an epidemic.

THE LIFE OF RABBI MOSHE

Rabbi Yosef de Trani (or Mitrani. Trani is a small town in Puglia, in South Italy, probably the family’s origin was from this city) escaped from Spain at the time of the expulsion in 1492, and reached Thessaloniki, Greece. There, in the year 1500, his son Ribbi Moshe was born. At the age of 18, Ribbi Moshe moved to Erets Israel and settled in the city of Tsefat/Safed where a small Jewish colony was developing; led by the well known Rab Ya’aqob Berab. By the 16 century, Tsefat became the most important Jewish center in the world. And the influence of the Rabbis who were there is still felt today. Rabbi Miterani was one of those influential Rabbis. He was also known by his acronym- Mabbit (מבי”ט (משה בן יוסף טיראני.
Around the year 1530, Rabbi Miterani received his Semikha (a renewed rabbinical ordination) from Rabbi Yaakob Berab, along with Ribbi Yosef Caro, the famous author of the Shulhan Arukh. Rabbi Yosef Caro and Rabbi Miterani were inseparable colleagues and served together in the Bet Din (rabbinical Court) of Tsefat, the latter for 54 years. Rabbi Miterani succeeded Rabbi Yosef Caro as head of the Bet Din when Rabbi Caro died in 1575. Rabbi Miterani passed away at the age of 80. He left behind children who followed his rabbinical vocation and wrote several books. His most famous Halacha books are “Qiriat Sefer” and his responsa, “Shut Hamabit” .
He also wrote a very particular book called BET ELOKIM, which I want to tell you about today.

BET ELOKIM
The book is divided into 3 parts: the first part refers to Tefila- prayer. The second part is about Teshuba-repentance. And the third part, Yesodot- the ideas, beliefs and philosophical foundations of Judaism.
In the first part, chapter 16, Rabbi Miterani refers to deber, that is, the deadly epidemics that occasionally appear in the world and affects cities, towns, countries, or in times of globalization- the entire planet.
He first describes the most famous epidemics mentioned in the Tanakh. The plague in the times of Pinehas, when 24,000 people died . That of Qorah where 14,700 Jews died. And finally the epidemic that hit Israel in the time of King David, where 70,000 people died.

ADULTS OR CHILDREN?
Rabbi Miterani then mentions the epidemics that plagued the world in his own time. Biblical epidemics affected mostly adult men. Death was immediate, sudden, and the plague was short. It could be over in a day.
Plagues in Rabbi Miterani’s time, like in our times, were not sudden, but would last for weeks or even months. People died daily, and like David haMelekh himself (see Tehilim Psalm 30) some of those who became ill, recovered.
The most dramatic thing that Rabbi Miterani writes is that the plagues and epidemics of his time affected mostly “innocent children” תינוקות של בן רבן. Similarly, the Spanish Influenza in 1918 affected mostly young adults and pregnant women. Today, despite the general madness, we have to be thankful that B”H children are not that vulnerable to this virus. Children and young adults can get the virus and might have symptoms of a common cold. But unlike what happens with the elderly, the young immune system of children and adolescents is effective and usually overcomes this virus.

DO NOT PUT YOURSELF AT RISK
Rabbi Miterani says that unlike the divine plagues cited in the Tora, contemporary epidemics may appear to us to be a “natural” phenomenon. The Rabbi quotes doctors of his time who explained that “the rarefied air that one breathes makes one die”. But the final verdict, the Rabbi explains, then and now, is still in the hands of the Creator, as we say in the Tefilot de Rosh haShana.
The Rabbi also criticizes those who take unnecessary risks, by negligently exposing themselves to contagion. ” וקצתם שאינם מחויבים אז בעונש ההוא אלא שהם מסתכנים בעצמם לעמוד במקום הסכנה ואינם ראויים לשיעשה להם נס ונדבק בהם החולי ההוא וה‘ יתברך יודע בחירתם וחותמם למיתה  “Even if someone was not destined to die, if he stays in a dangerous place where he shouldn’t be, might not be worthy of a miraculous Divine intervention, and he might be condemn to die.”
We must take Rabbi Miterani’s words into account and avoiding taking risks. Because today, even if the lives of children and young adults, B”H, are not in danger they can become carriers of this virus, and involuntarily spread it to the elderly by being in contact with them, or with someone who will eventually be in contact with elders. ANYONE CAN BECOME, ח”ו AN INVOLUNTARY POTENTIAL KILLER. Grandparents are the most exposed in this entire pandemic. And we must protect ourselves to protect them. This is very important to bear in mind, especially in our communities where staying in the family many times means staying with the “extended families”, grandparents, grandchildren, cousins, etc. WE ARE FORCED TO DO THE UNTHINKABLE UNTIL THIS PANDEMIC IS OVER: SEPARATE FROM OUR BELOVED FAMILY MEMBERS.

WHAT TO DO NOW?
Although Rabbi Moshe leaves open the difficult eternal question of why bad things happen to good people, he explains how we Jews react in times of tragedy.
He mentions the areas where we should improve: וירבה בתפילה וצדקה ותחנונים לפני הא-ל יתברך בתשובה ומעשים טובים
In my own words,
Tefila, praying to God, asking Him to heal those who are sick, and begging Him to protect those who are healthy.
Tsedaka, helping and assisting with food, resources, money those who are most affected by this epidemic.
Teshuba, repenting of our wrong actions. Trying to improve the observance of His Tora.
Ma’asim Tobim, becoming better people. Better parents, better children, better spouses.

We pray that soon, B’H, this epidemic will be over and we will return to normality, which we will now surely value more than ever!




The Importance Of The Name “Jacobo”

בשביל שלושה דברים נגאלו ישראל ממצרים: שלא שינו את שמם, ואת לשונם, ואת לבושם

TETOUAN

To speak of my father, about whom I never dared writing until now; I must begin with my great-grandfather, and make a special emphasis on his name: Ya’akob Bitton z ”l. My great-grandfather (it is his picture you see photographed here) lived in Tetouan- a small city in the North of Morocco with a significant Jewish population. An official 1861 census reports that out of 11,000 inhabitants in Tetouan, 5,000 or 6,000 were Jewish. (https://avotaynuonline.com/2016/08/jews-tetuan-morocco-genealogy-iconography/). Tetouan’ Jews were direct descendants of those expelled from Spain in 1492.  Spanish was the most common language in Tetouan but Jews had also their own Judeo-Spanish dialect: Haketia.

This is what I know about my great-grandfather. He lived in Calle del Tesoro # 2. He had a spices shop next to the market. And whenever someone needed paper to wrap the fish, they would get it from him. He was called “Brother Yaakob Bitton, the good one” (Hermano Yaakob Bitton, el Bueno) an honorific title in the Jewish quarter of Tetouan. Why? Because he was always reciting Tehilim and never spoke unnecessarily. This is all I know of my great-grandfather. Including one more detail: indirectly, he saved my father from assimilation.

SAN MIGUEL DEL MONTE

My grandfather Leon z ”l (Yehuda) was the eldest son of Yaakob Bitton. Born in 1895 he had to go out to work since a young age because poverty in Tetouan had turned into starvation. So terrible was the situation that at the age of 13 or 14  my grandfather had to travel alone to Argentina to send some money to his family. I don’t know how many times he traveled back to Tetouan. But I have the document of his wedding, civil and religious, that took place in Tetouan, in 1916. I believe after that, he never returned to Morocco. My grandfather Leon became a very prosperous businessman. He opened a network of clothing stores in various provinces of the country. And he settled with my grandmother in the city of San Miguel del Monte, a small town more than 100 kilometers away from Buenos Aires.

In that little town, to this day, there is absolutely nothing Jewish. There is no community, no synagogue, no school, no Kashrut. I think my grandfather was the only Jew in the entire town.

My father grew up there, and in his childhood, he never saw a mezuza in his house, he never ate Kosher, never learned Hebrew, never even heard a Kiddush. My grandfather’s legacy to my father were his Berit Mila and his name.   

In the 1940s my grandfather became very wealthy and was the only person in his small town to own a car and a driver. My grandparents my father and his siblings lived and dressed  like millionaires and were the celebrities of San Miguel del Monte.

LANGUAGE, ECONOMY, AND ASSIMILATION

My grandfather represented those thousands of Jews who, for mainly economic reasons, decided to live their lives on their own, with no Jewish community life. I am reminded of the differences between my paternal grandfather and my maternal grandfather, Abraham Faur, z ”l, who arrived from Damascus, Syria, around the same time, 1915. The most notable “advantage” my paternal grandfather had was that he spoke Spanish. And that advantage gave him access to business opportunities anywhere in the then rich country.  But this “advantage” also precipitated his assimilation. My maternal grandfather, on the other hand,  did NOT speak Spanish, only Arabic. And like 99% of the Syrian Jews who arrived in Buenos Aires, he settled in Barracas,  near the port. He went through hardship and financial difficulties but always lived with the community, with other Jews like him, supporting each other. 

What saved my grandfather from assimilation?

I believe that what saved my grandfather’s family from total assimilation was that his employees cheated on him and took all his businesses. My grandfather was literally left with nothing but debts. And he had to go to Buenos Aires in search of business opportunities and start from scratch. He never recovered his wealth but, providentially, my grandfather’s  financial ruin brought my father closer to the Jewish community.

WHAT’S IN A JEWISH NAME? 

What saved my father from assimilation? 

The most important factor that kept my father’s Jewish identity alive was his name, “Jacobo”. In Argentina, only a Jew could be named “Jacobo”. My father told me that throughout his childhood and adolescence, all he wanted was to be like everyone else but his name gave his religion away. Because of his Jewish name he suffered mocking, bullying and hatred. He tried to change his name and begged his friends to call him “Juan Carlos”, but he did not succeed. At school or at work everyone kept calling him, “Jacobo”, laughing, reminding him that he was a Jew.  When he arrived in Buenos Aires, he had no choice but to connect socially with the only people who were not going to bully him because of his name: his Jewish “brothers”.  And one night, at a community party in Barracas he met my mom.  And the rest is history.  

The Sages explained that what kept the Jews from assimilating into Egyptian society, particularly in times of prosperity, was that the Israelites consciously preserved their language, their clothes, and their names, a lesson I will never forget. 

In memory of my father, יעקב בר יהודה, in the day of his anniversary




KI TISSA: Coronavirus and Staying Calm. By Rabbanit Coty Bitton.

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This Shabbat I’m Staying Home

This is going to be one of the most special Shabbat of our lives. 

Unlike other times, like Hurricane Sandy, when I remember that some people had to leave homes because their basements were flooded and there was no power , many people came to Kanissa, that was like the safest place to be. Now, this Shabbat, we will have to avoid Kanissa and stay home. 

We will miss each seeing each other, greeting, hugging each other and praying together,  

Just to make sure:  Missing and not being physically with each other for a short while, is not necessarily a bad thing.  First, It teaches us that we need to value the gifts and blessings that we have WHEN we have them, and second,  like Nidda time, longing for each other RENEWS our love and desire to be together again, BH very soon. 

Why we are not going to Kanissa? 

Basically, it is my understanding that this is basically a preventive measure. It is not ONLY because CDC gives us some medical guidelines. It is also our Tora that urges us to be EXTRA careful when it gets to keeping ourselves and those around us safe and healthy. ונשמרתם מאוד לנפשותיכם

We need to separate from each other, mainly, to protect the elders and those with a medical condition. Because, BH for most of us even if we get the virus, it won’t mean anything worse than the flu. But, if we get the virus and we go home to our parents or grandparents, we might affect them.  And the older someone is, the more expose he or she is. That’s the main reason we are ALL doing this.  We are all sacrificing ONE SHABBAT because we want to avoid a risk that even ONE of our elders will be affected by this virus that is more contagious than the flu.     

In my personal case, ever since we were informed that one of my family members was in contact with someone that tested positive we have all decided that because we MIGHT represent a bigger factor of risk for others, we will stay home for a few days. Why? Because the most rational thing to do will be to test yourself best and eliminate the doubt. However, testing is extremely limited, and Urgent care will ONLY test you if you have been in direct contact with someone who tested positive AND you have symptoms.  So, we wait home and see if we develop any symptoms. Which BH after a week, did not happen. AGAIN ALL THIS IS DONE MOSTLY TO AVOID A POTENTIAL SPREADING OF THE VIRUS IN THE UNLIKELY CASE YOU HAVE IT AND IN THIS WAY PROTECT OTHERS, THE ELDERS AND PEOPLE WITH CERTAIN MEDICAL CONDITIONS.

So, this Shabbat I’m staying home .

This is a very special Shabbat for me. Because this Sunday is the anniversary of my father, z”l. And I should be saying Kaddish for him from this Friday night. BUT, AS A RABBI I KNOW that protecting lives, and avoiding the risk of someone else’s life, is more important than saying Kaddish.    Please, learn this thing from me. And if you are saying Kaddish, and you will be in contact with any elder person or with someone that might be close to an elder, stay home and ask someone else to say Kaddish for you. 

Finally, let me tell you what I have done for my father’s Kaddish. 

Last night, I called my friend and colleague Rabbi Mordekhai Kohanim. I knew that Rabbi Kohanim will be attending a very small Minyan this Shabbat, so I asked him to say Kaddish for my father. 

Rabbi Kohanim, as expected, told me: “Of course rabbi Bitton I will be very honored to do so”.  Then I said to him that is going to be just until Sunday, because my father passed away Adar 19th.   Then, after a few seconds of silence Rabbi Kohanim said: “Adar 19th? That is also my own father’s Yahrtzait “.  

We got very emotional. I cried a little bit…. and it it hit me very strongly to feel the incredible ways in which despite all these physical isolations, we are indeed united and together in so many mysterious paths, in this world and beyond… 

I will miss you all. I wish for everyone a great Shabbat 

LEILUY NISHMAT YAAKOB BAR YEHUDA BITTON AND AHARON BEN MORDEKHAI KOHANIM, z’l. 

 

 

 

THIS IS A VERY SPECIAL EMAIL FROM A JEWISH COMMUNITY IN CHICAGO GREAT GUIDELINES FOR THIS SPECIAL SHABBAT 

PLEASE PRINT IT AND FOLLOW IT!  IT WILL ENHANCE YOUR SHABBAT DAY 

Shabbat Parashat Ki Tisa, Shabbat Parah

March 14th, 2020

Dear Families,

In the coming days and weeks, we all may find ourselves spending Shabbat at home with our families, unable to attend shul or the other kinds of playdates and social gatherings that make up the special flavor of a normal shabbat in our community. Unlike on weekdays, where digital distractions abound, Shabbat poses unique challenges. How do we make the day fun, special and religiously significant even without attending services, kiddush or shabbat meals? 

We’ve included some ideas below, to make your Shabbat at home feel as special and holy as possible under the circumstances. 

Pre-Shabbat Ruach: Get in the Shabbat spirit with a dance party and watching parsha videos. 

Friday Night:

  • Do you have tunes from Kabbalat Shabbat that you love? After candle lighting, sing them out loud with your family, dance in a circle–  holding your own little service at home to welcome in the Shabbat queen. Adults can make sure to pray a full Kabbalat Shabbat and Maariv service as well, but bring your children into it as is appropriate. 
  • Over dinner, start to discuss the Parsha with your children. You can use the Parsha Themes infographic included in the family email to kick off your discussion. 

Shabbat Day: 

  • Shabbat day can feel like a very unstructured time. One way to help everyone in your family feel like they know what to expect and look forward to is to make a plan and a written schedule for how your Shabbat will be spent and review it with your children before Shabbat. 
  • In addition to your own personal tefillot of Shacharit and Musaf, daven with your children. If they are in Tot Shabbat, sing your favorite songs with them. The children in drop-off groups may well know what Tefillot they normally do in groups. Hopefully in the coming days the leaders of those groups will produce at-home guides for you and your children, but we might not have them ready in time for this Shabbat. Nevertheless, you can ask your children of any age which Tefillot they know and love from groups, school or summer camp, and you can sing them together. 
  • There are many different ways to explore the Parsha with your children, depending on their age. 
    • With older children, you could learn it together out of a chumash. You could practice some leyning together, to hone skills they are learning in school or have learned for their bnai mitzvah. 
    • For elementary aged children, you could talk about the Parsha (perhaps the story of the Golden Calf) and put on a skit together utilizing any costumes and props you might have around the house. Add in challenge with unusual types of props (eg, “incorporate this spatula into the story!”). If you have some time before shabbat, have your child(ren) create puppets for the main figures in the parsha and put on a puppet show in a unique style or using silly voices (think B’nei Yisrael heads to the opera or rodeo).
    • For younger children, you might want to talk about counting. Our Parsha begins with a census, but instead of counting people, they are commanded to collect a coin per person and then count the coins. What other kinds of things can you count? 
  • Extend your Shabbat lunch by singing zemirot between courses and saying birkat hamazon out loud together. If it is age-appropriate, practice the words of Kiddush with your children. 
  • Reading together is a great Shabbat activity for all ages. Adults also enjoy gathering together for dramatic readings of Shakespeare and other theater greats. Find books to read to your children that might be new for them and for you– the more participatory the better. Challenge yourself to come up with tunes for any parts that might be sing-song, so as to break up the monotony for yourself and further engage your children. 
  • Playing board and card games for many hours straight can be strenuous, but starting a board game and then taking a break for another activity before continuing can keep everything exciting and fresh for longer. Don’t wait until everyone is bored before pausing an activity– always leave people wanting more, so that when you come back to it, it will feel like a treat. 
  • Make sure to incorporate physical activity. Whether this is a Shabbat Zemirot dance party (appointing a table-drummer to keep a beat while everyone else dances will go a long way here), a game of Simon says, or just some good laps around your apartment (one time in a crab walk, one time in a crawl, one time backward, one time wheelbarrow, one time blindfolded, one time singing the Tot Shabbat “on my way to shul one day” song, etc), will help everyone feel less stir-crazy. 

End of Shabbat:

  • As shabbat winds down, eat Seudah Shlishit together as a family. Sing slower songs as the day flows away. Get everyone into pajamas and ready for your pajama havdallah party! 
  • When Shabbat ends, turn out the lights, light up your havdallah candle, and reflect together on how special this Shabbat was that you all spent together. Remind each other of the parts you liked the most, the fun times you had together. This is important because if we have to do this all again next week, you want everyone to remember the good parts! 

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbanit Leah Sarna & Molly Jaret




Do You Remember Hurricane Sandy ?

I do. But I have to make a concerted effort to recall the memories of gas shortage, lack of electrical power, and our collective fears over supplies of food. It felt to us then like the world was coming to an end. Today, we go about our lives as if hurricane Sandy never happened. 

The one thing I do recall with clarity from that time are amazing words that a good friend of mine, an ophthalmologist, shared with me. After witnessing his medical office being completely destroyed by the terrible storm, he said that “tragedies could bring the worst in us or the best in us”. He mentioned that some of his colleagues took advantage of Sandy to try and ‘steal’ some of his patients. Other colleagues, though, offered him usage of their own medical offices so he could continue treating his patients. 

COVID-19 is looking to be far more severe than Sandy. But this tragedy too, can bring out the best or the worst in us. 

If we respond with this in mind, this can be a time for each of us to react in ways that are giving and kind. We can work to do something helpful and productive for those who are suffering, and act with altruism, and compassion. Just imagine what our communities could look like if we each asked ourselves to care for others in the way we have been caring for our selves and our families! 

Be’ezrat HaShem “THIS TOO SHALL PASS” . And our actions will define the way we remember these days. 

Be grateful to HaShem for the silver linings of this difficult time. If you are a parent or a grandparent be grateful that this virus, for which there is no vaccine yet, is thank God not affecting children to a great extent. 

Above all pray to HaShem with special intensity: ask Him sincerely for the welfare of others. When you do that, you become a person of His interest, deserving God’s attention. 

With prayers for a Refuah Shlema for all –

Yosef Bitton

In memory of “Sarina”,  Sara Rut bat Ephraim Kalaty, z”l.  




KEEPING HEALTHY. KEEPING CALM

First Speaker is DR. AARON E. GLATT, MD, CHAIRMAN, DEPARTMENT OF MEDICINE,CHIEF, INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND HOSPITAL EPIDEMIOLOGIST AT MT SINAI. 

Second Speaker DR NORMAN BLUMENTHAL a licensed clinical psychologist who practices in Cedarhurst, NY. Dr. Blumenthal serves as the Coordinator of Group Psychotherapy Training for Interns and Residents at the North Shore Long Island Jewish Health System.

Lecture by Dr Aaron Glatt from Mt Sinai and Dr
Dr. Norman Blumenthal

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This was a conference call held on Tuesday March 3rd at 8:15PM. 1200 people were on the call. PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS INFORMATION IS RELEVANT ONLY ON THE DATE OF MARCH 3RD. IF THERE ARE ANY NEW DEVELOPMENTS, THE HEALTH RECOMMENDATIONS MAY CHANGE.




CORONAVIRUS: Handshake or Namaste?

CARE FOR OUR HEALTH
There are 613 precepts in the Tora. One of them is to “take care of our health.” As Maimonides explains, this precept requires us to not only to seek healing when we are sick but also to prevent possible diseases. Maimonides, who was a pioneer of preventive medicine, writes extensively on the importance of diet and physical exercise to keep ourselves in good shape and about the significance of hygiene. Today it is known that good hygiene is what primarily allows the prevention of contagious diseases.

HOW ARE DISEASES TRANSMITTED?
There are viruses, such as HIV, that are transmitted through the blood and other bodily fluids. Other diseases, like tuberculosis or measles, are caused by pathogens which are transmitted through the air. And still others, such as the influenza virus (flu) and the coronavirus are transmitted through respiratory droplets. If a person with the flu coughs or sneezes the pathogen can infect those who are nearby. Viruses and bacteria can also be transmitted through the surface of objects, a door-knob or even a cellphone. 
But perhaps the most common way to get sick is through direct contact — by touching or shaking the hands of a person who is ill.

2,000 years ago our rabbis discussed a similar matter: the transmission of ritual impurity (Heb: tum-a).

ידיים עסקניות הן, ונוגעות מבלי משים במקומות מזוהמים, משום כך גזרו חכמים על סתם ידיים שיהיו שניות לטומאה
“The hands are permanently active” they said” “And, involuntarily, the hands touch contaminated parts of our body. And that is why the Hakhamim established that when one is not aware that his hands have touched something impure, the hands  must still be considered impure.”    

Jewish law therefore states that hands should be washed permanently, even if one is not aware that they have been in contact with something impure (except when one is certain that since he washed his hands he did not touch anything impure).

THE ENEMY IN YOUR HANDS
Dr. Colleen Kraft, a microbiologist, says:
“During a viral pandemic, we are often our own worst enemies. Point in fact: We touch our face with our hands, including our nose, eyes, and mouth — areas with mucous membranes, an average of 15 to 23 times an hour.”

This helps us better understand why hand hygiene is the most important precautionary measure to avoid the flu or the coronavirus. According to Dr. Kraft, the lack of hand hygiene has proven to be the most important factor in the spread of infectious diseases (see more here ).

Since taking care of one’s health is a Mitzva (a biblical precept), I believe that it is our halakhic obligation to learn how to minimize the risk of contagion.

Here are some guidelines:

1. GREETING, IN HEALTH AND IN SICKNESS: In times of coronavirus, when we greet other people with a handshake it is important to wash our hands, or to apply an alcohol based hand sanitizer to our hands. Although most people are healthy, with the coronavirus it is not possible to know if individuals are contagious since the symptoms (fever, sneezing or coughing) may not be evident and the virus can still be transmitted. In my opinion, the best thing we should do temporarily is to greet by waving one’s hands, blowing a kiss across the air, or engaging in a “namaste”-style greeting, avoiding direct physical contact as much as possible.

2. DEREKH ERETZ: Now, even if health-wise it is the prudent thing to do, if I leave the room to wash my hands immediately after shaking somebody’s hand, there is a good chance that person will be offended. Therefore, where the situation makes it impracticable to wash one’s hand after a handshake, it is particularly important to avoid touching our own face and to avoid shaking another person’s hand until we have had a chance to wash with soap.

3. NO KISSING HANDS: Today, in his daily class, Rabbi Eliyahu Ben Hayim told us that rabbis should temporarily discourage people from kissing other people’s hands. As anyone knows, this is an honorable gesture toward Talmide Hakhamim or elders, but the present circumstances call for avoiding this beautiful practice due to the higher risk of transmission. I think we should also discourage the custom of greeting someone we honor by shaking his hand and then bringing our own hand to our mouth and kiss it. In our community many people perform this gesture out of respect and affection, when they greet the Kohanim, after the priestly blessing.

4. THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR: If you are sick, if you have a fever or you think you may have the flu, you should stay at home and talk to your doctor. Because if you go to a public place you can spread the virus, involuntary, to many people around you.

5. TEMPORARY ONLY: We pray and hope B”H that all these measures will soon be unnecessary. We pray and hope that this virus will disappear, as it seems to be happening in China, or that a vaccine will be found soon.

Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Yosef Bitton