Why do we fast on the 17 of Tamuz?
Five tragedies happened to the Jewish people on the 17 of Tammuz:
1. In Biblical times, Moses descended from Mount Sinai and upon seeing the Jews worshipping the Golden Calf, he broke the first set of tablets that carried the Ten Commandments.
2. King Menashe, one of the worst sovereigns of the Kingdom of Yehuda, placed on that day an idol in the Holy Sanctuary of the Temple, around the year 700 BCE.
3. In the time of the First Temple, on the 17th of Tamuz, 587 BCE, the Kohanim (priests) stopped offering the daily sacrifices due to the shortage of sheep during the siege of the city by the Babylonian army.
4. One year later, 586 BCE the walls of Yerushalaim were breached after many months of siege by Nebuchadnezzar and his Babylonian forces. Three weeks after the breach of the wall, the Bet haMikdash was destroyed on the 9th of Ab.
5. Around the year 50 of the Common Era, Apostomus, a Roman captain, seized a Torah scroll and with abusive and mocking language, burned it in public.
The fast ends at 8:54PM (NY Time)
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The Fast of 17 of Tamuz
Today is the 16 of Tamuz, 5771
The fast begins at 4:12 AM and ends at 8.54 PM.
On the 17 of Tamuz there are only two prohibitions: eating and drinking.
NO additional limitations apply, such as the prohibition of washing the body, wearing leather shoes, working, driving, etc.
Who is exempted from fasting?
Minors: boys under 13 and girls under 12 years old are completely exempted from fasting.
Nursing women: According to the Sephardic Minhag, after giving birth, a woman is exempted from fasting for 24 months, even if they are not actually nursing their baby.
Pregnant women, especially after the first 3 months, are exempted from fasting.
A person who is sick, with flu or fever or a chronic disease, for example, diabetes, is exempt from fasting.
Elders should consult with their physicians if the fast might affect their health. If it will, they are exempted (and in some cases, prohibited) from fasting.
All other healthy people should fast and remember the tragedies that fell onto the Jewish people in this day.
Our custom is to authorize to wash one’s mouth or brush the teeth in this Ta’anit, provided one will be careful to lower his head avoiding swallowing water unintentionally.
Tomorrow, B’H, I’ll explain why we fast on this day.
There are no words, only tears
In memory of Leiby Kletzky, by Rabbi Benjamin Blech
EMET and SHEQER: Of faith and witnesses
The foundations of our faith is the knowledge that our ancestors did not lie to us. God revealed Himself only once. To our forefathers in Mt. Sinai, 49 days after they left Egypt. This happened approximately 150 generations ago*. And while all other religions base their faith in God on “evidences”, we Jews know that God Almighty does not leave any physical evidences of His Presence: there are no pictures taken in Mt Sinai, no stones with a special divine radiation, no left overs of that miracle. But there are witnesses. 600,000 witnesses of God’s existence. Yesha’ayah (43:12) considers this explicitly as the nature (and mission) of the Jewish People. atem edai, he said, “You are my witnesses,” declares the Lord, “that I am God”.
In a good sense, the fate of our belief in God is intertwined with trusting our fathers. We believe in God –and so ironically believe all those religions based on the Hebrew Bible– because we believe in our fathers. Those who stood and heard the voice of God in Sinai. We trust them. We believe that they transmitted the truth from generation to generation. And by believing in their testimony, we inherited their role as God’s witnesses.
* Rabbi Henry Pereira Mendes, Z”L (1852-1937) an American sephardic Rabbi, and one of the rabbis of Congregation Shearit Israel in New York, wrote in his Sefer of Jewish History that, although there are some discrepancies as to what would be the exact equivalent date of the Exodus on the vernacular calendar, he suggests to keep in mind the year 1492 (BCE) a date, he said, very easy to remember for anyone who lives in America. Learn More about Shearit Israel and Rabbi Mendes: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congregation_Shearith_Israel
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THE HISTORY OF THE MASHADI JEWISH COMMUNITY
Anussim of Mashad
In the Beginning (1746 – 1839):
Allah-dad (1839 – 1925)
- A) First, they had to adopt Islamic names for themselves and their children. Names such as Mohammad, Ali and Hassan are quite common among the older generation of the Mashadi Jews. Some even had to make the required pilgrimage to Mecca and Medina which awarded them the title of Hadji. In addition to their Islamic name, every child born in the community was also given a secret Hebrew name, a practice that is still common among today’s Mashadi Jews.
B) Then there was the problem of kashrut and keeping a kosher home. The converted Jews had to buy their meat from local non-kosher stores, so that in the eyes of their neighbors, they were not observing any strange dietary laws. But Mashadi women refused to allow any non-kosher meat into their homes. All of this meat was immediately discarded or fed to the dogs. The men of the community learned the practice of shchita, the ritual slaughter of animals, and provided their families and friends with the meat that was prepared under the strictest Jewish dietary laws. For the distribution of this meat they were aided by the Iranian architecture. All houses were built with private courtyards with windows that faced inward instead of toward the street. The houses were connected from the inside which enabled the Jews to gather for secret meetings and distribute the meat without ever going outside.
C) Then there was the problem of praying in the mosque. The Mashadis had to participate in prayer sessions in the local mosque with their Moslem neighbors, but after attending the Friday prayer in the mosque, they would rush home to their secret gathering places to welcome the Sabbath. These secret minyans were held in dark and dilapidated basements. All the Torah scrolls and prayer books had been destroyed during the riots of 1839, but the Mashadi Jews somehow managed to reproduce their hand-written siddurim and Torah scrolls to be used in their secret gatherings. They even established Torah classes for their children. Of course this education for the children had to start at an age when there was no longer any danger that they might reveal their true identity to their classmates. This usually started around the age of ten, and it was explained to them very carefully not to discuss anything about it in their classrooms. Children studied Islamic subjects in school, but at home they were taught the principles of Jewish religion.
D) On Shabbat and holidays, since the Jews had to keep their stores open, they often hired help from outside to run the stores for them. The help was instructed to turn potential customers away with various excuses. This way they were able to refrain from engaging in business transactions on Shabbat and holidays.
E) Funerals were also held twice. After burying their departed in the Moslem cemetery, the Jews would rush home to recite kaddish in the privacy of their home.
F) Probably the most important concern of the newly-converted Jews was intermarriage. To protect themselves, the Mashadi Jews would often marry off their children at very young ages, around nine or ten. If a suitor approached them for their daughter, they could claim that she was either married or had already been spoken for. This way they kept marriages among themselves. Incidentally, the practice of marrying within the community is exercised even today, and the vast majority of marriages among Mashadis are within the community.
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Berit Milah Ceremony
While the father is holding the baby, he says:
שָׂשׂ אָנֹכִי עַל אִמְרָתֶךָ, כְּמוֹצֵא שָׁלָל רָב: זִבְחֵי אֱלֹהִים רוּחַ נִשְׁבָּרָה. לֵב נִשְׁבָּר וְנִדְכֶּה, אֱלֹהִים לֹא תִבְזֶה: הֵטִיבָה בִרְצוֹנְךָ אֶת צִיּוֹן, תִּבְנֶה חוֹמוֹת יְרוּשָׁלָיִם: אָז תַּחְפּוֹץ זִבְחֵי צֶדֶק עוֹלָה וְכָלִיל, אָז יַעֲלוּ עַל מִזְבַּחֲךָ פָרִים:—אַשְׁרֵי תִּבְחַר וּתְקָרֵב יִשְׁכֹּן .חֲצֵרֶיךָ
The Congregation responds
נִשְׂבְּעָה בְּטוּב בֵּיתֶךָ, קְדֹשׁ הֵיכָלֶךָ
The father says:
אִם אֶשְׁכָּחֵךְ יְרוּשָׁלַיִם תִּשְׁכַּח יְמִינִי: תִּדְבַּק לְשוֹנִי לְחִכִּי אִם לֹא אֶזְכְּרֵכִי: אִם לֹא אַעֲלֶה אֶת יְרוּשָלַים עַל רֹאש שִׂמְחָתִי
(בארץ ישראל מוסיפים פסוקים אלו)
שְׁמַע יִשְׂרָאֵל יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ יְיָ אֶחָד
יְיָ מֶלֶךְ יְיָ מָלָךְ יְיָ יִמְלוֹךְ לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד
יְיָ מֶלֶךְ יְיָ מָלָךְ יְיָ יִמְלוֹךְ לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד
אָנָא יְיָ הוֹשִׁיעָה נָא אָנָא יְיָ הוֹשִׁיעָה נָא
אָנָא יְיָ הַצְלִיחָה נָא אָנָא יְיָ הַצְלִיחָה נָא
The father or whoever he honors for this matter, places the baby on the Chair of Elyahu haNabi and the Rabbi says:
זֶה הַכִּסֵּא שֶׁל אֵלִיָּהוּ הַנָּבִיא זָכוּר לַטּוֹב, מלאך הברית
Then the father takes the baby back and he appoints the Mohel as his proxy to circumcise his son. The father says to the Mohel:
“Be my SHALIACH (agent, proxy) to circumcise my son”
“הריני ממנה אותך להיות שלוחי למול את בני”
Before the Mohel starts the Milah th e father says the following Berakha:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָּׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ לְהַכְנִיסוֹ בִּבְרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ
The Rabbi and congregant answe:
כְּשֵׁם שֶׁנִּכְנַס לַבְּרִית, כֵּן יִכָּנֵס לְתוֹרָה וּלְחֻפָּה וּלְמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים
The Mohel says the following Berakha:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָּׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ עַל הַמִּילָה
The father says the Berakha Shehecheyanu:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, שֶהֶחֱיָנוּ וְקִיְּמָנוּ וְהִגִיעָנוּ לַזְּמַן הַזֶּה
The Rabbi or one of the guests holds a cup of wine and says the following Berakhot:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, בּוֹרֵא פְּרִי הַגָּפֶן
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדֵּשׁ יְדִיד מִבֶּטֶן, וְחֹק בִּשְׁאֵרוֹ שָׂם, וְצֶאֱצָאָיו חָתַם בְּאוֹת בְּרִית קֹדֶשׁ. עַל כֵּן בִּשְׂכַר זֹאת, אֵל חַי חֶלְקֵנוּ צוּרֵנוּ צִוָּה לְהַצִּיל יְדִידוּת זֶרַע קֹדֶשׁ שְׁאֵרֵנוּ מִשַּׁחַת, לְמַעַן בְּרִיתוֹ אֲשֶׁר שָׂם בִּבְשָׂרֵנוּ. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ, כּוֹרֵת הַבְּרִית
The Rabbi or the Mohel names and blesses the baby:
אֱלֹהֵינוּ וֵאלֹהֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ, קַיֵּם אֶת הַיֶּלֶד הַזֶּה לְאָבִיו וּלְאִמּוֹ, וְיִקָּרֵא שְׁמוֹ בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל (פלוני) יִשְׂמַח הָאִיש בְּיוֹצֵא חֲלָצָיו, וְתָגֵל הָאִשָׁה בִּפְרִי בִטְנָהּ, כָּאָמוּר: יִשְׂמַח אָבִיךָ וְאִמֶּךָ. וְתָגֵל יוֹלַדְתֶּךָ: וְנֶאֱמָר: וָאֶעֱבֹר עָלַיִךְ וָאֶרְאֵךְ מִתְבּוֹסֶסֶת בְּדָמָיִךְ, (המוהל מטעים פעמיים, מעט מאצבעו לתינוק, כשאומר פסוק זה) וָאֹמַר לָךְ בְּדָמַיִךְ חֲיִי, וָאֹמַר לָךְ בְּדָמַיִךְ חֲיִי: וְנֶאֱמַר: זָכַר לְעוֹלָם בְּרִיתוֹ, דָבָר צִוָּה לְאֶלֶף דּוֹר: אֲשֶׁר כָּרַת אֶת אַבְרָהָם וּשְׁבוּעָתוֹ לְיִשְׂחָק: וַיַּעֲמִידֶהָ לְיַעֲקֹב לְחֹק, לְיִשְׂרָאֵל בְּרִית עוֹלָם: הוֹדוּ לַיְיָ כִּי טוֹב, כִּי לְעוֹלָם חַסְדּוֹ
(פלוני) זֶה הַקָּטָן הַשֵׁם יְגַדְּלֵהוּ, כְּשֵׁם שֶׁנִּכְנַס לַבְּרִית, כֵּן יִכָּנֵס לַתּוֹרָה וְלַמִצְוֹת וְלַחֻפָּה וּלְמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים. וִיקַיֵּם בּוֹ מִקְרָא שֶׁכָּתוּב יְשִׂימְךָ אֱלֹהִים כְּאֶפְרַיִם וְכִמְנַשֶׁה. וְכֵן יְהִי רָצוֹן וְנֹאמַר אָמֵן
שִׁיר הַמַּעֲלוֹת אַשְׁרֵי כָּל יְרֵא יְיָ הַהוֹלֵךְ בִּדְרָכָיו: יְגִיעַ כַּפֶּיךָ כִּי תֹאכֵל אַשְׁרֶיךָ וְטוֹב לָךְ אֶשְׁתְּךָ כְּגֶפֶן פּוֹרִיָּה בְּיַרְכְּתֵי בֵיתֶךָ בָּנֶיךָ כִּשְׁתִילֵי זֵתִים סָבִיב לְשׁוּלְחָנְךָ: הִנֵה כִי כֵן יְבוֹרַך גָבֶר יְרֵא יְיָ: יְבָרֶכְךָ יְיָ מִצִּיוֹן וּרְאֵה בְּטוּב יְרוּשָׁלַיִם כֹּל יְמֵי חַיֶּיךָ: וּרְאֵה בָנִים לְבָנֶיךָ שָׁלוֹם עַל יִשׂרָאֵל
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Minhaguim of Sheba Berakhot
Today is the 21 of Sivan, 5771
As we have explained last week (see HERE), part of the celebration of the seven days of celebration after the wedding is the recitation of the Sheba Berakhot (seven blessings).
These blessings are recited only when a few conditions are met:
According to the Sephardic custom in Israel (Rabbi O. Yosef)
1.There must be ten adult males present (the chatan is considered one of them)
2.The meal has to take place in the residence of the bride and groom (bet chatanim)
3. There must be at least two new guest (panim chadashot).
When one of these conditions is not met, then if at least three adult male are partaking of the formal meal, they recite just the last berakha (ashe bara…)
The custom in the Mashadi community is the same except that the sheba berakhot are recited, regardless of where the meal is taking place (Rabbi Ben Hayim).
The Ashkenazi custom also allows to recite the sheba berakhot even if the meal does not take place in the residence of the new couple, and even if just one new guest, not two is present (Rabbi Knohl).
When the Sheba Berakhot are recited, the custom is to have two cups of wine: with the first cup, one says Birkat haMazon and at the end of the Sheba Berakhot, he himself says “bore peri hagefen”. With the second cup, they say the other six berakhot. After bore peri hagefen, the wine of the two cups is mixed and given to the bride and the groom (R. O. Yosef)
When only the berakha Asher Bara is recited, the custom is to say first bore peri hagefen and then asher bara.
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BERIT MILA: Should the father himself perfom the circumcision?
18 of Sivan, 5771
In the Torah says that Abraham circumcised his son Isaac. Accordingly, the performance of the circumcision is incumbent directly upon the father.
The Sephardic tradition is that when the father performs the circumcision by himself, a different berakha is said. Normally the Mohel (circumcision surgeon) says: ‘al hamila “…that You commanded us the performance of the circumcision…”. But when the father himself circumcises his son he should say: “that You commanded us to circumcise one’s son”.
The question is: since it is a greater merit for the father to perform the Berit, should the father himself be encouraged to circumcise his son?
Some modern Rabbis discourage the father from doing the circumcision (see Penine Halakha, Mishpacha, 3, pg. 166) especially since there have been some cases where, God forbids, tragedies have occurred because of that. Rabbi Melamed also says that “rob gedole Israel”, most prominent rabbis had always preferred to let the Mohel to perform the Berit. After all, the Berit Mila is a delicate procedure, for which one should not take risks (chashash sakana).
“The task of the mohel is not taken lightly. The mohel is required to study Jewish law, be familiar with the ancient traditions included in the circumcision ceremony, and must have expertise in the surgical process. For that, he undergoes intense training, learning the latest hygienic and medical techniques needed for the circumcision. He also receives instruction for evaluating the infant’s health prior to the circumcision, and for providing post-procedural care”.
The general custom, then, is that the father formally appoints an expert Mohel to circumcise his son.
The exception, of course, is when the father himself is a Mohel or a doctor.
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