BERIT MILA: Choosing the right Mohel

Today is the 23 of Tamuz, 5771
In the following lines, I present some guidelines to help the parents realize what is important to check at the time they are choosing the Mohel (‘circumcision surgeon’).
The two basic elements to bear in mind when choosing a Mohel are: A. The expertise of the Mohel. B.
The personality and religious character of the Mohel (“adam tob vetzadiq”)
The Mohel should be experienced and trained in the performance of the Berit Mila. The Mohel is required to study Jewish law, and be sensitive to the traditions of the community where he performs the Berit Milah.
He should also be trained in the medical aspects of circumcisions.
1. Together with the family doctor, he has to evaluate the infant’s health to decide if it is safe to perform the Berit Mila.
2. He needs to know the basic of sterilization and hygiene required at the time of the circumcision. (I will have B’H a special section on Metziza)
3. He needs to be an expert not only in removing the foreskin but also the tissue around it (peri’a). This procedure is not done with instruments but by hand.
4. He needs to know how to disinfect and cover the wound, so it heals fast and well.
5. The Mohel is expected to provide post-procedural care, which is often done in conjunction with the family doctor.
6. The Mohel is supposed to have basic training in first aid, in case, God forbid, anything goes wrong.
Most Mohalim today are affiliated with local hospitals and/or certified by Berit Mila Boards, where they have got the basic training in circumcision performance, surgery and first aid. Many Mohalim will post this information in their web sites or cards.



Why do we fast on the 17 of Tamuz?

Five tragedies happened to the Jewish people on the 17 of Tammuz:

1. In Biblical times, Moses descended from Mount Sinai and upon seeing the Jews worshipping the Golden Calf, he broke the first set of tablets that carried the Ten Commandments.

2. King Menashe, one of the worst sovereigns of the Kingdom of Yehuda, placed on that day an idol in the Holy Sanctuary of the Temple, around the year 700 BCE.

3. In the time of the First Temple, on the 17th of Tamuz, 587 BCE, the Kohanim (priests) stopped offering the daily sacrifices due to the shortage of sheep during the siege of the city by the Babylonian army.

4. One year later, 586 BCE the walls of Yerushalaim were breached after many months of siege by Nebuchadnezzar and his Babylonian forces. Three weeks after the breach of the wall, the Bet haMikdash was destroyed on the 9th of Ab.

5. Around the year 50 of the Common Era, Apostomus, a Roman captain, seized a Torah scroll and with abusive and mocking language, burned it in public.

The fast ends at 8:54PM (NY Time)

Due to the current hot weather in NY, people should take extra precautions to avoid dehydration. Symptoms of dehydration are: vomiting, feeling very nauseated or very weak or light headed, despite lying down.

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The Fast of 17 of Tamuz

Today is the 16 of Tamuz, 5771

Tomorrow Tuesday July 19th is a fast day, shiba’asar betamuz (Tamuz 17th).

The fast begins at 4:12 AM and ends at 8.54 PM.

On the 17 of Tamuz there are only two prohibitions: eating and drinking.

NO additional limitations apply, such as the prohibition of washing the body, wearing leather shoes, working, driving, etc.

Who is exempted from fasting?

Minors: boys under 13 and girls under 12 years old are completely exempted from fasting.

Nursing women: According to the Sephardic Minhag, after giving birth, a woman is exempted from fasting for 24 months, even if they are not actually nursing their baby.

Pregnant women, especially after the first 3 months, are exempted from fasting.

A person who is sick, with flu or fever or a chronic disease, for example, diabetes, is exempt from fasting.

Elders should consult with their physicians if the fast might affect their health. If it will, they are exempted (and in some cases, prohibited) from fasting.

All other healthy people should fast and remember the tragedies that fell onto the Jewish people in this day.

Our custom is to authorize to wash one’s mouth or brush the teeth in this Ta’anit, provided one will be careful to lower his head avoiding swallowing water unintentionally.

Tomorrow, B’H, I’ll explain why we fast on this day.

There are no words, only tears
In memory of Leiby Kletzky, by Rabbi Benjamin Blech




EMET and SHEQER: Of faith and witnesses

The Torah’s commands us to “stay far away from falsehood” (Shemot 23:7) midebar sheqer tirchaq. Falsehood (sheqer), is regarded as something repulsive. Therefore, when a person speaks words of falsehood violates this positive commandment even by merely including some falsehood in a true report and even if the words are literally true but their implication is false.

The foundations of our faith is the knowledge that our ancestors did not lie to us. God revealed Himself only once. To our forefathers in Mt. Sinai, 49 days after they left Egypt. This happened approximately 150 generations ago*. And while all other religions base their faith in God on “evidences”, we Jews know that God Almighty does not leave any physical evidences of His Presence: there are no pictures taken in Mt Sinai, no stones with a special divine radiation, no left overs of that miracle. But there are witnesses. 600,000 witnesses of God’s existence. Yesha’ayah (43:12) considers this explicitly as the nature (and mission) of the Jewish People. atem edai, he said, “You are my witnesses,” declares the Lord, “that I am God”.

In a good sense, the fate of our belief in God is intertwined with trusting our fathers. We believe in God –and so ironically believe all those religions based on the Hebrew Bible– because we believe in our fathers. Those who stood and heard the voice of God in Sinai. We trust them. We believe that they transmitted the truth from generation to generation. And by believing in their testimony, we inherited their role as God’s witnesses.

* Rabbi Henry Pereira Mendes, Z”L (1852-1937) an American sephardic Rabbi, and one of the rabbis of Congregation Shearit Israel in New York, wrote in his Sefer of Jewish History that, although there are some discrepancies as to what would be the exact equivalent date of the Exodus on the vernacular calendar, he suggests to keep in mind the year 1492 (BCE) a date, he said, very easy to remember for anyone who lives in America. Learn More about Shearit Israel and Rabbi Mendes: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congregation_Shearith_Israel

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THE HISTORY OF THE MASHADI JEWISH COMMUNITY

Anussim of Mashad

By: Bernard Livi

In the Beginning (1746 – 1839):

When we study the history of the Jewish people, we encounter many oppressed and persecuted Jewish communities. One of the most famous, of course, is the community of the Marranos of Spain and Portugal of which almost everyone has heard. There is another community of Marranos that practically no one has ever heard of. They are the Marranos of Mashad, or the Mashadi Jews. What you are about to hear is the story of an exceptionally small group of people who were forced to abandon Judaism. This is the story of Anusei Mashad.
This community of Jews comes from the city of Mashad, Iran’s second largest city, and the capital of a province in the northeast region of the country. Iran or Persia is a relatively large country in the Middle East with a population of 67 million. The official religion of Iran is the Shiite branch of Islam and 95% of the population adhere to that religion.
The beginning of Jewish history in Iran dates back to late Biblical times. The Books of Isaiah, Daniel, Ezra, Nehemiah, Chronicles and Esther contain references to the Jewish life in Persia. It is believed that many Jews found their way into Persia after Cyrus the Great, the King of Persia, ended the Babylonian Exile in the Fifth Century B.C.E. The Persian Jews are, therefore, neither Ashkenazi nor Sephardic. A more accurate description of the Persian Jews is probably “Mizrahi” or Eastern Jews. But since their customs and traditions more closely resembles the Jews of Spanish background, they are categorized as Sephardic Jews.
The story begins in the year 1746, nearly 250 years ago, when Nader Shah, the reigning king of the Persian Empire, decided to relocate 40 Jewish families to his new capital, the city of Mashad. These original 40 families were selected by the king because of their honesty and trustworthiness to safeguard and protect the treasury of the king in his new capital.
The city of Mashad, where this story takes place, has a religious significance for its Shiite population. It is the burial site of one of Islam’s most important Imams or religious leaders. The presence of this sanctuary, which brought many pilgrims to the city, made the inhabitants fervently religious. So being among Moslems with deep fundamentalist ideologies, famous for their intolerance of other religions, made the lives of the newly-arrived Jews extremely difficult.
The Shiite population of Mashad considered the Jews unclean and prohibited any contact with this group of people. The Jews were confined to the outskirts of the city in ghetto-like localities. Since they could not engage in business activities with the general population, the newly-arrived Jews very soon developed trade among themselves, and established trade routes with the nearby cities. As the years passed, the Jewish population of Mashad grew in number and established a small synagogue and other institutions for a proper Jewish life.
Even though the religious elements of the city had discouraged any contact with the Jews, the Mashadi Jews proved to be reliable and trustworthy business contacts with excellent credit standings. Very soon the reputation of honesty of these Jews spread throughout the city, and their Moslem neighbors felt more and more comfortable engaging in business with the Jewish community. However, the Jews were still constantly under the watchful eyes of the Moslem population. They would be blamed and attacked for every unfortunate incident, and, like everywhere else, they were the victims of any outburst of bigotry.

Allah-dad (1839 – 1925)

Tolerance for the Jews took a sharp decline in the year 1839, about 160 years ago, when on the 12th day of Nissan, the most traumatic event in the history of the Mashadi Jews took place. On this day, which happened to be a holy day for the Moslems, a rumor was spread during a procession that the Jews were mocking and ridiculing some of Islam’s religious practices. This false accusation was very quickly spread throughout the city and a huge mob assembled at the office of the local religious leaders demanding action against the Jews. On the same day, a permit was granted and an angry mob attacked the Jewish neighborhood. In the course of this event, which was called the Allah-dad, the rioters attacked Jewish homes and shops, destroyed their property, destroyed books and religious articles, and burned the synagogue. By the time the dust settled, 36 Mashadi Jews had lost their lives.
The Jews were given 2 simple choices: conversion or death. The leaders of the Jewish community realized that their only chance of survival at the moment was to embrace Islam. The entire Jewish community of Mashad, which by now consisted of more than 200 families, converted to Islam and started new lives as “Jadid-Al-Islam” or “New Moslems.” This newly adopted faith, however, was only on the surface and for the eyes of their Moslem neighbors. The Jews started to live a double life; on the surface they were Moslems, but in secret they continued to live their lives as true Jews.
But how does one do that? How can a person live among Moslems, pray in their mosques, observe their holidays, and assure their neighbors of their sincerity, and at the same time cling to their Jewish traditions? To do this, the newly-converted Mashadis had to make significant changes in their lifestyle:
    A) First, they had to adopt Islamic names for themselves and their children. Names such as Mohammad, Ali and Hassan are quite common among the older generation of the Mashadi Jews. Some even had to make the required pilgrimage to Mecca and Medina which awarded them the title of Hadji. In addition to their Islamic name, every child born in the community was also given a secret Hebrew name, a practice that is still common among today’s Mashadi Jews.
    B) Then there was the problem of kashrut and keeping a kosher home. The converted Jews had to buy their meat from local non-kosher stores, so that in the eyes of their neighbors, they were not observing any strange dietary laws. But Mashadi women refused to allow any non-kosher meat into their homes. All of this meat was immediately discarded or fed to the dogs. The men of the community learned the practice of shchita, the ritual slaughter of animals, and provided their families and friends with the meat that was prepared under the strictest Jewish dietary laws. For the distribution of this meat they were aided by the Iranian architecture. All houses were built with private courtyards with windows that faced inward instead of toward the street. The houses were connected from the inside which enabled the Jews to gather for secret meetings and distribute the meat without ever going outside.
    C) Then there was the problem of praying in the mosque. The Mashadis had to participate in prayer sessions in the local mosque with their Moslem neighbors, but after attending the Friday prayer in the mosque, they would rush home to their secret gathering places to welcome the Sabbath. These secret minyans were held in dark and dilapidated basements. All the Torah scrolls and prayer books had been destroyed during the riots of 1839, but the Mashadi Jews somehow managed to reproduce their hand-written siddurim and Torah scrolls to be used in their secret gatherings. They even established Torah classes for their children. Of course this education for the children had to start at an age when there was no longer any danger that they might reveal their true identity to their classmates. This usually started around the age of ten, and it was explained to them very carefully not to discuss anything about it in their classrooms. Children studied Islamic subjects in school, but at home they were taught the principles of Jewish religion.
    D) On Shabbat and holidays, since the Jews had to keep their stores open, they often hired help from outside to run the stores for them. The help was instructed to turn potential customers away with various excuses. This way they were able to refrain from engaging in business transactions on Shabbat and holidays.
    E) Funerals were also held twice. After burying their departed in the Moslem cemetery, the Jews would rush home to recite kaddish in the privacy of their home.
    F) Probably the most important concern of the newly-converted Jews was intermarriage. To protect themselves, the Mashadi Jews would often marry off their children at very young ages, around nine or ten. If a suitor approached them for their daughter, they could claim that she was either married or had already been spoken for. This way they kept marriages among themselves. Incidentally, the practice of marrying within the community is exercised even today, and the vast majority of marriages among Mashadis are within the community.
As you can imagine, living a double life was not easy and carried with it enormous risk. The Jews were constantly under the doubtful watch of their Moslem neighbors. Those who had doubts in the sincerity of the new Moslems were always looking for clues to prove that this group of people were practicing Judaism in secret. On many occasions, the Jews encountered serious threats from their neighbors and local authorities who had become suspicious of their practices and their true identity. Miraculously, the true identity of the Jews was never revealed.
The question arises as to why the Jews of Mashad didn’t leave and start a new life somewhere else. Of course it is never easy to leave one’s birthplace and venture into a new and unknown world. Besides, the authorities had forbidden the Jews to leave town, and would punish anyone who was caught fleeing the city. And even if they did decide to leave, the nearest town in which the Jews lived in a relatively freer society was a 12-day journey away. Amid all the risks, some Jewish families did leave their birthplace and sought refuge in other nearby cities.
Those who did stay, however, did not lose hope that someday they would be free to practice Judaism in the open. They continued to live as Moslems but they never forgot their true identity. They continued to teach their children, and continued to assemble secretly for Shabbat and holiday services. At one point, the Mashadi Jews had 11 secret synagogues in their neighborhood.

Reza Pahlavi (1925 – 1946 )

The Jews of Mashad lived a double life and under difficult conditions for nearly one hundred years. Their situation did not improve drastically until Reza Pahlavi, the father of the recent Shah of Iran, ascended to power in 1925, and a period of religious freedom was inaugurated. The Jews of Mashad came out of the closet, so to speak, and started to practice their religion freely, under the protection of the new regime and the new king. With the start of this period, the Jewish life in Mashad was revitalized. The Jews of Mashad who had been disguised as Moslems for over a century, began with new excitement to lead a productive Jewish life.
Unfortunately, this freedom also had to come to an end. During World War II, anti Jewish sentiments once again flared up in Mashad. Through radio broadcasts, the Jews were accused of spying for the enemy, and were blamed for the hardship that was brought upon the nation.
Again in the month of Nissan in the year 1946, another mob attacked the Jewish neighborhood. The Jews finally realized that they would no longer be safe in the city, and the time had come for them to move to another city. By this time, the Jewish population of Mashad had reached 3000, and many of them had established business contacts in Tehran. Therefore, their relocation was not as difficult. The mass migration of the Mashadi Jews to Tehran started in 1946 and in a few years almost all the families had left the city.
In Tehran and during the rule of the Shah, the Jews enjoyed a period of freedom and religious tolerance. Jews became prosperous during this period and started trade with other countries. More than 10 Mashadi synagogues were established in Tehran and a number of Jewish schools opened during this period. Mashadi Jews, following a tradition of isolation, remained very close to each other even in the free society of Tehran.
With the establishment of the State of Israel, many Mashadi Jews emigrated to the Jewish State, and today the majority of the Mashadi Jews, nearly 10,000, live in Israel. Later on some Mashadis went to Europe and established Mashadi communities in Hamburg, Germany, in London and in Milan, Italy.
The recent history of the Mashadi Jews took another turn with the Islamic Revolution in 1979 which brought the majority of the remaining Mashadi Jews to the United States. At first they settled in Kew Gardens, Queens, and as their businesses developed, they started migrating to the Great Neck area.
The entire history of the Mashadi community spanned only two centuries and the size never exceeded a few hundred families. And yet the community has a unique significance among the communities of Jewish Diaspora. Unlike the original Marranos, who after one generation lost touch with their Jewish past, the Marranos of Mashad survived as Jews. Today there are 3700 Mashadi Jews living in New York. Every member of this cohesive community is proud of his or her unique history. Every member takes pride in belonging to a group of people whose ancestors fought the pressure of their surroundings, and, against all odds, did not abandon Judaism.



Berit Milah Ceremony

While the father is holding the baby, he says:

שָׂשׂ אָנֹכִי עַל אִמְרָתֶךָ, כְּמוֹצֵא שָׁלָל רָב: זִבְחֵי אֱלֹהִים רוּחַ נִשְׁבָּרָה. לֵב נִשְׁבָּר וְנִדְכֶּה, אֱלֹהִים לֹא תִבְזֶה: הֵטִיבָה בִרְצוֹנְךָ אֶת צִיּוֹן, תִּבְנֶה חוֹמוֹת יְרוּשָׁלָיִם: אָז תַּחְפּוֹץ זִבְחֵי צֶדֶק עוֹלָה וְכָלִיל, אָז יַעֲלוּ עַל מִזְבַּחֲךָ פָרִים:—אַשְׁרֵי תִּבְחַר וּתְקָרֵב יִשְׁכֹּן .חֲצֵרֶיךָ

The Congregation responds

נִשְׂבְּעָה בְּטוּב בֵּיתֶךָ, קְדֹשׁ הֵיכָלֶךָ

The father says:

אִם אֶשְׁכָּחֵךְ יְרוּשָׁלַיִם תִּשְׁכַּח יְמִינִי: תִּדְבַּק לְשוֹנִי לְחִכִּי אִם לֹא אֶזְכְּרֵכִי: אִם לֹא אַעֲלֶה אֶת יְרוּשָלַים עַל רֹאש שִׂמְחָתִי

(בארץ ישראל מוסיפים פסוקים אלו)

שְׁמַע יִשְׂרָאֵל יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ יְיָ אֶחָד

יְיָ מֶלֶךְ יְיָ מָלָךְ יְיָ יִמְלוֹךְ לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד

יְיָ מֶלֶךְ יְיָ מָלָךְ יְיָ יִמְלוֹךְ לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד

אָנָא יְיָ הוֹשִׁיעָה נָא אָנָא יְיָ הוֹשִׁיעָה נָא

אָנָא יְיָ הַצְלִיחָה נָא אָנָא יְיָ הַצְלִיחָה נָא

The father or whoever he honors for this matter, places the baby on the Chair of Elyahu haNabi and the Rabbi says:

  זֶה הַכִּסֵּא שֶׁל אֵלִיָּהוּ הַנָּבִיא זָכוּר לַטּוֹב, מלאך הברית

Then the father takes the baby back and he appoints the Mohel as his proxy to circumcise his son. The father says to the Mohel:

“Be my SHALIACH (agent, proxy) to circumcise my son”

“הריני ממנה אותך להיות שלוחי למול את בני”

Before the Mohel starts the Milah th e father says the following Berakha:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָּׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ לְהַכְנִיסוֹ בִּבְרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ

The Rabbi and congregant answe:

כְּשֵׁם שֶׁנִּכְנַס לַבְּרִית, כֵּן יִכָּנֵס לְתוֹרָה וּלְחֻפָּה וּלְמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים

The Mohel says the following Berakha:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָּׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ עַל הַמִּילָה

The father says the Berakha Shehecheyanu:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, שֶהֶחֱיָנוּ וְקִיְּמָנוּ וְהִגִיעָנוּ לַזְּמַן הַזֶּה

The Rabbi or one of the guests holds a cup of wine and says the following Berakhot:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, בּוֹרֵא פְּרִי הַגָּפֶן

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדֵּשׁ יְדִיד מִבֶּטֶן, וְחֹק בִּשְׁאֵרוֹ שָׂם, וְצֶאֱצָאָיו חָתַם בְּאוֹת בְּרִית קֹדֶשׁ. עַל כֵּן בִּשְׂכַר זֹאת, אֵל חַי חֶלְקֵנוּ צוּרֵנוּ צִוָּה לְהַצִּיל יְדִידוּת זֶרַע קֹדֶשׁ שְׁאֵרֵנוּ מִשַּׁחַת, לְמַעַן בְּרִיתוֹ אֲשֶׁר שָׂם בִּבְשָׂרֵנוּ. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ, כּוֹרֵת הַבְּרִית

The Rabbi or the Mohel names and blesses the baby:

אֱלֹהֵינוּ וֵאלֹהֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ, קַיֵּם אֶת הַיֶּלֶד הַזֶּה לְאָבִיו וּלְאִמּוֹ, וְיִקָּרֵא שְׁמוֹ בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל (פלוני) יִשְׂמַח הָאִיש בְּיוֹצֵא חֲלָצָיו, וְתָגֵל הָאִשָׁה בִּפְרִי בִטְנָהּ, כָּאָמוּר: יִשְׂמַח אָבִיךָ וְאִמֶּךָ. וְתָגֵל יוֹלַדְתֶּךָ: וְנֶאֱמָר: וָאֶעֱבֹר עָלַיִךְ וָאֶרְאֵךְ מִתְבּוֹסֶסֶת בְּדָמָיִךְ, (המוהל מטעים פעמיים, מעט מאצבעו לתינוק, כשאומר פסוק זה) וָאֹמַר לָךְ בְּדָמַיִךְ חֲיִי, וָאֹמַר לָךְ בְּדָמַיִךְ חֲיִי: וְנֶאֱמַר: זָכַר לְעוֹלָם בְּרִיתוֹ, דָבָר צִוָּה לְאֶלֶף דּוֹר: אֲשֶׁר כָּרַת אֶת אַבְרָהָם וּשְׁבוּעָתוֹ לְיִשְׂחָק: וַיַּעֲמִידֶהָ לְיַעֲקֹב לְחֹק, לְיִשְׂרָאֵל בְּרִית עוֹלָם: הוֹדוּ לַיְיָ כִּי טוֹב, כִּי לְעוֹלָם חַסְדּוֹ

(פלוני) זֶה הַקָּטָן הַשֵׁם יְגַדְּלֵהוּ, כְּשֵׁם שֶׁנִּכְנַס לַבְּרִית, כֵּן יִכָּנֵס לַתּוֹרָה וְלַמִצְוֹת וְלַחֻפָּה וּלְמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים. וִיקַיֵּם בּוֹ מִקְרָא שֶׁכָּתוּב יְשִׂימְךָ אֱלֹהִים כְּאֶפְרַיִם וְכִמְנַשֶׁה. וְכֵן יְהִי רָצוֹן וְנֹאמַר אָמֵן

שִׁיר הַמַּעֲלוֹת אַשְׁרֵי כָּל יְרֵא יְיָ הַהוֹלֵךְ בִּדְרָכָיו: יְגִיעַ כַּפֶּיךָ כִּי תֹאכֵל אַשְׁרֶיךָ וְטוֹב לָךְ אֶשְׁתְּךָ כְּגֶפֶן פּוֹרִיָּה בְּיַרְכְּתֵי בֵיתֶךָ בָּנֶיךָ כִּשְׁתִילֵי זֵתִים סָבִיב לְשׁוּלְחָנְךָ: הִנֵה כִי כֵן יְבוֹרַך גָבֶר יְרֵא יְיָ: יְבָרֶכְךָ יְיָ מִצִּיוֹן וּרְאֵה בְּטוּב יְרוּשָׁלַיִם כֹּל יְמֵי חַיֶּיךָ: וּרְאֵה בָנִים לְבָנֶיךָ שָׁלוֹם עַל יִשׂרָאֵל

Kadish Yehe Shelama Rabbah.




Rabbi David Aaaron de Sola (1796-1860)

David Aaron de Sola (1796 – 1860) was a rabbi and author, born in Amsterdam. When but eleven years of age he entered as a student the bet-hamidrash of his native city, and after a course of nine years received his rabbinical diploma. In 1818 he was elected one of the ministers of the Bevis Marks Congregation, London. De Sola’s addresses before the Society for the Cultivation of Hebrew Literature led the mahamad (board of directors of the congregation) to appoint him to deliver discourses in the vernacular, and on March 26, 1831, he preached the first sermon in English ever heard within the walls of Bevis Marks Synagogue. His discourses were subsequently published by the mahamad. In 1829 he issued his first work, The Blessings, and in 1836 he published his Translation of the Forms of Prayer According to the Custom of the Spanish and Portuguese Jews, in six volumes, of which a second edition was issued in 1852. This translation formed the basis for several subsequent ones.
In 1837 de Sola published The Proper Names in Scripture. In 1839, he translated eighteen treatises of the Mishna to English. In 1840 de Sola, conjointly with Raphall, began the publication of an English translation of the Scriptures together with a commentary. Only the first volume, Genesis, was published, in 1844.
Besides his works in English, de Sola wrote in Hebrew, German, and Dutch. He contributed frequently between 1836 and 1845 to the Allgemeine Zeitung des Judenthums and to Der Orient, and published in German A Biography of Epharim Luzzato and a Biography of Distinguished Israelites in England. His chief work in Dutch was his Biography of Rabbi Isaac Shemuel Reggio published in 1855 and afterward translated into English.




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Minhaguim of Sheba Berakhot

Today is the 21 of Sivan, 5771

As we have explained last week (see HERE), part of the celebration of the seven days of celebration after the wedding is the recitation of the Sheba Berakhot (seven blessings).

These blessings are recited only when a few conditions are met:

According to the Sephardic custom in Israel (Rabbi O. Yosef)

1.There must be ten adult males present (the chatan is considered one of them)

2.The meal has to take place in the residence of the bride and groom (bet chatanim)

3. There must be at least two new guest (panim chadashot).

When one of these conditions is not met, then if at least three adult male are partaking of the formal meal, they recite just the last berakha (ashe bara…)

The custom in the Mashadi community is the same except that the sheba berakhot are recited, regardless of where the meal is taking place (Rabbi Ben Hayim).

The Ashkenazi custom also allows to recite the sheba berakhot even if the meal does not take place in the residence of the new couple, and even if just one new guest, not two is present (Rabbi Knohl).

When the Sheba Berakhot are recited, the custom is to have two cups of wine: with the first cup, one says Birkat haMazon and at the end of the Sheba Berakhot, he himself says “bore peri hagefen”. With the second cup, they say the other six berakhot. After bore peri hagefen, the wine of the two cups is mixed and given to the bride and the groom (R. O. Yosef)

When only the berakha Asher Bara is recited, the custom is to say first bore peri hagefen and then asher bara.

 

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BERIT MILA: Should the father himself perfom the circumcision?

18 of Sivan, 5771

In the Torah says that Abraham circumcised his son Isaac. Accordingly, the performance of the circumcision is incumbent directly upon the father.

The Sephardic tradition is that when the father performs the circumcision by himself, a different berakha is said. Normally the Mohel (circumcision surgeon) says: ‘al hamila “…that You commanded us the performance of the circumcision…”. But when the father himself circumcises his son he should say: “that You commanded us to circumcise one’s son”.

The question is: since it is a greater merit for the father to perform the Berit, should the father himself be encouraged to circumcise his son?

Some modern Rabbis discourage the father from doing the circumcision (see Penine Halakha, Mishpacha, 3, pg. 166) especially since there have been some cases where, God forbids, tragedies have occurred because of that. Rabbi Melamed also says that “rob gedole Israel”, most prominent rabbis had always preferred to let the Mohel to perform the Berit. After all, the Berit Mila is a delicate procedure, for which one should not take risks (chashash sakana).

“The task of the mohel is not taken lightly. The mohel is required to study Jewish law, be familiar with the ancient traditions included in the circumcision ceremony, and must have expertise in the surgical process. For that, he undergoes intense training, learning the latest hygienic and medical techniques needed for the circumcision. He also receives instruction for evaluating the infant’s health prior to the circumcision, and for providing post-procedural care”.

The general custom, then, is that the father formally appoints an expert Mohel to circumcise his son.

The exception, of course, is when the father himself is a Mohel or a doctor.

 

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The First Mitzvah of the Torah

The first Mitzvah of the Torah and the first blessing given by God to Adam and Eve, is the commandment to (marry and) have children. Bereshit 1: 28 says: “And God blessed them [Adam and Eve] and God said to them, reproduce and multiply“.
The Rabbis of the Mishna, discussed the Mitvza of having children is considered fulfilled.
Bet-Shamai said that the Mitzvah is fulfilled by having at least two boys: same as Adam and Eve, who at the beginning brought two boys to the world: Cain and Abel.
Bet-Hillel, however, says that the Mitzvah is not considered fulfilled until one has at least a boy and a girl. Because this is how God created human civilization: with one man and one woman. The matter was settled like Bet-Hillel.

There is an additional reason for this opinion: if you read carefully the words of the Torah, a husband and a wife must first “reproduce” themselves, in other words, have a replica of themselves (a man and a woman) leaving in this world the same number and kind of lives that one day will be taken away.
One more thing: although the Mitzvah is fulfilled by having one boy and one girl, the rabbis explained that it is a great merit to have as many children as one can. They deduced this guidance from the second word of God’s commandment: “reproduce and multiply“.”Reproduce” means bringing to the world a replica of yourselves. “Multiply” means “bring into this world more souls than yourselves”.
Of course, this Mitzvah does not depend exclusively on our good will: its uniqueness consists that to fulfill this Mitzvah the spouses need to be granted God’s blessing, as the Pasuk says: the blessing of having children.