Pidyon haBen. How frequent is it?
Organ Donation in Jewish Law
In today’s Halakha we will focus exclusively on living donors. The cases under this category are, for example, kidney donation; bone marrow and blood donation.
It is a consensus among modern orthodox rabbis that one should be willing to undergo a minor risk in order to save someone else’s life.
In the past, many rabbis, among them Rabbi Yitzchak Weiss and Rabbi Eliezer Yehuda Waldenberg z'”l, had certain reservations about the permission to donate a kidney, because they thought that although a person can have a normal life with one kidney, the risks involved for the living donor, during and after surgery, were too high and would endanger his life.
In our days, however, donors are carefully screened physically and psychologically, and the surgical and post-surgical risks of complications for the donor have diminished dramatically, thanks to the advances of modern medicine. Today it is consented by most (if not all!) Modern Orthodox rabbis thatdonating a kidney is at least permitted, if not mandatory. Nevertheless, one may never obligate or coerce someone else to donate an organ, even to save the life of another person.
In his rabbinical response Rabbi Obadia Yosef evaluates the objections of Rabbi Weiss and Rabbi Waldenberg, and asserts that since today the risks involved in kidney donation are so low, it is considered a great Mitzvah to donate a kidney, fulfilling the commandment of saving a life, (piquach nefesh). Donating a kidney to save a life, he suggests, might be also required by the Tora’s commandment “lo ta’amod al dam re’ekha“, “You shall not stand still while your fellowman bleeds to death (i.e. is dying)” .
To understand the impact of this great Mitzva, let us keep in mind that a typical patient who receives a kidney, will live 10 to 15 years longer with a kidney transplant than if kept on dialysis.
(to be continued…)
For a comprehensive and reliable source of information about Jewish Law and organ transplant see Halachic Organ Donors Society
The 13 principles of the Jewish Faith. # 1. God exists
In his Perush haMishanyot, Maimonides (1135-1204) formulated the principles of the Jewish faith.
“The first principle involves the belief in the existence of God”.
God is our Creator, the Creator of the universe and the Creator of life.
“The ultimate foundation and the pillar of wisdom is the realization that there is a Being, a first cause, who brought everything into existence.”
In Mishne Tora Maimonides describes this belief as knowledge of God.
What is knowledge of God? We, the Jewish people, experienced collectively God’s revelation at Mount Sinai. In a sense, our knowledge of God is based on historical facts. At this very basic level, our knowledge of God is intimately related and depending on our trust in our forefathers –beginning with Abraham, Ytzchaq and Yaaqob– as credible witnesses of God’s revelation and as credible testifiers of all historical facts related in our Tora.
But this historical knowledge (=legacy) is just the basic ground of our faith. On an individual level, every Jew should set for himself as the ultimate goal of his and her life to acquire knowledge of God. “Knowledge” should not be confused with “understanding”. We do not expect to understand God! This “knowledge” is a function of closeness, of us being aware of God’s Presence, and our awe and love for Him. Praying to God, following His commandments and especially, studying His Tora, increases our closeness and knowledge of God.
The pursuit of this knowledge represents the fulfillment of the first of the Ten Commandments “I’m the lord, your God”.
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Understanding the Shema Israel
The Shulchan Arukh clearly writes that the kavana (usually translated as attention, or focus) we are required to have when we pray consists primarily in understanding the meaning of the words we are pronouncing.
If we are not fluent in Hebrew, we should make the effort to understand the meaning of the words we pronounce. In the following weeks, B’H, we are going to explain the words of the Shema Israel and the ideas behind it.
When we pray, we should know first the simple meaning of a word. But then, we should also delve into the ideas behind the words. For example: the word ATA, means in Hebrew “YOU”. And the idea behind “YOU” is that we are addressing God in the second person! When we say baruch ata, after we understand that ATA means “YOU”, we must also realize and bring ourselves to think and feel that we are standing directly in front of Him. That God Almighty is present here and now.
Let us explore now the first word: shema’.
“shema” means “listen”, in the imperative form. In addition, and same as in English when in opposition to “hear”, “shema” means: listening while paying close attention. The rabbis mentioned that in this sense,“listen” precisely implies “understand” (bekhol lashon sheata shomea).
Our rabbis explained that the word “shema” also indicates that when we read the Shema Israel we need to be completely focused on it. It is obviously forbidden to talk and even to make a sound or a body signal, even to greet someone. We must reach a state of total concentration while reciting the Shema Israel.
In sum: “shema israel” means: You, members of the Jewish Nation, pay close attention, focus and understand the following crucial statement: “Hashem is our God, HaShem is one”.
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Understanding the Mitzva of redeeming the first-born son
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Should we forgive?
The days of Elul are days of Teshuba. We ask forgiveness from God, for any ritual transgressions we might have done. And we should seek our peer’s forgiveness for any offenses we might have caused them.
We also need to be willing to forgive.
In Chapter 2, Halakha 10, Maimonides talks about the appropriate attitude of the victim of an offense. He says: “It is forbidden for a person to be insensitive (akhzari) and refuse to be appeased… rather, when someone approaches him seeking his forgiveness, he should forgive him wholeheartedly and with a positive spirit”.
Forgiving is one of the most difficult emotional acts we might be performing in our lives, but at the time we ask forgiveness from God, we should be willing to forgive others as well.
Seeking revenge or even bearing a grudge is actually a Biblical prohibition. According to Maimonides, these altruistic values have had such an impact in the Jewish nation that it became already a ‘second nature’, or part of the Jews present genetic makeup. “[forgiving is part of] the nature (darkan) of the descendants of israel and the inclination of their hearth”
I must clarify, however, that we are referring here to social and personal forgiveness: when a friend, a colleague, a neighbor, etc.did something wrong to me.
Political forgiveness is a more complicated matter (I urge the reader to read this): we have no right to forgive the perpetrators and accomplices of the Shoa or those who had any involvement in brutal terrorists acts in Israel or in the terrorist attacks of 9/11.
Actually in this week’s Persaha the Torah states clearly that some instances, like the irrational hatred of Amaleq, should never be forgiven or even forgotten, but constantly remembered, lest it repeats itself.
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Rabbi Yosef Bitton.
130 Steamboat Rd. | Great Neck | NY | 11024.
Email: rabbibitton@yahoo.com
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The original sin and blame displacement
In Maimonides opinion Teshuba consists of three steps:
1. hakarat hachet or, admission of our personal responsibility .
2. viduy, or confession with sincere remorse for the wrong we have done
3. azibat hachet or the resolve to abandon a bad habit.
Personally, I believe that hakarat hachet is the most difficult challenge in Teshuba. Because naturally, we tend to justify and rationalize whatever wrong we have done. Or play the oldest human game: “blame displacement“.
Everyone knows that God punished Adam and Eve expelling them from Paradise. But why did He expel them? What did they do wrong? Eating from the forbidden tree?
Try this. Put on a table all kind of candies, sweets, and cakes in front of a six years old child. In the middle of the table place a simple cherry-tomato. Now, tell the child: ‘You can eat whatever you want except for the tomato’. It will be only a matter of time until the child disobeys, leaves everything else and eats the tomato. The ‘forbidden fruit’ syndrome triggers an irresistible curiosity and desire. According to Rabbi Yosef Albo, Adam and Eve’s sin was not eating from the fruit. God, he said, knew they will succumb! God wanted to train them to take charge, confess and repent for one’s wrong actions. He was teaching them to do Teshuba!
Adam’s real error happened when God approached him and asked him: ‘What did you do?’ and instead of admitting his responsibility and asking for God’s forgiveness, Adam ‘transferred’ the blame to Eve. He said: ‘the woman that You (You=God. Adam was blaming God!) placed next to me, she offered me the fruit’. Then, God approached Eve, and she said: ‘It wasn’t me! The serpent made me do it’.
‘Blame displacement,’ blaming others for our misdeeds, is probably the main obstacle for repentance, or at least the oldest one.
Rabbi Yosef Bitton.
130 Steamboat Rd. | Great Neck | NY | 11024.
Email: rabbibitton@yahoo.com
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