Shema Israel. Pasuq 4. Declaring our love of God.

(1)And you shall teach (these words) to your children, and you shall speak of them (2) when you are sitting in your house and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down and when you rise up.
In this pasuq the Tora commands us to express our love for God with our words and speech. 
  
In the first part of this pasuq (=verse) we learn about the duties of the parents to teach their children to love HaShem with all their heart, with all their soul and with all their might. Additionally, we are told, we must speak of our love for God and prove that it is real and that it influences our conduct at all times.   Our rabbis explained that the education process of our children always takes place as mimetic (imitative) experience. They said: When (or How) does it happen that we teach our children the love of God? At the time that we convey our love of God with our words.  Not when we preach to them about loving God, but when they see us practicing it: studying Tora, praying to Him and thanking Him for all we have.  
The second part of this pasuq teaches us that love of God is an integral part of our daily lives. We should not limit our prayers and words to Him just when we are in Synagogue. The pasuq emphasizes that we should express our love for Him when we are sitting at home, by ourselves or with our families in the privacy of our home, but also outside home, in the street, in front of others.  Our love for God should be the first thing we declare when we get up in the morning, and the last, when we go to sleep.
A good example of expressing our love for God constantly with our words, is when we say at all times (MEANING IT!) “barukh HaShem”= “Thanks God” , or “be’ezrat haShem” =”with God’s help”.


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The SHEMA ISRAEL  by Rabbi Hayim Pereira-Mendes (1905)



Dating and Lashon haRa

 

Lashon haRa, i.e, telling something negative about somebody else, is one of the most serious prohibitions in our Tora and its effects could be devastating. Yet, there are a few instances in which we are allowed or even required to speak up to and reveal certain negative information to prevent someone else’s damage, for example, in the world of business (see here ). 
In the area of Shiddukhim (=dating) Lashon haRa might cause tremendous and long-lasting damage in the emotional and psychological life of the victims. I know many engagements which were tragically broken, because of Lashon haRa; people –friends, relatives–made negative comments about the bride or the groom, innocently or sometimes deliberately, out of jealousy or resentment. 
Still, there might be some ‘negative’  information about the bride and the groom that we know, and we believe it should be known to the other party. Should we disclose that information? 
I will summarize the matter of Lashon haRa and Shiddukhim, with the following two basic rules:
1. If you have first-hand information of a ‘serious/objective’ matter that affects the bride or groom, you can (or sometimes ‘you should’) reveal this information to the potential partner. For example, a major issue in the past, like a previous marriage; a life threatening disease, a serious mental problem, etc.  However, in other ‘subjective’ areas–where you apply your judgment more than your knowledge of certain facts, like ‘compatibility’, character, rumors, etc. you should not interfere. Different personalities might complement each other and make for beautiful marriages.
2. FOR ALL CASES, and before you say one word, PLEASE, always seek the advice of an experienced Rabbi or an expert counselor, to help you assessing if the information you have, it is indeed a ‘serious/objective’ matter which deserves to be disclosed, or if it pertains to your own subjective judgment, and therefore you need to let the bride, the groom and their families, to decide by themselvesif and when they want to reveal it.  A good advisor will also help you decide when and how to reveal the information, as well as verify if this information has been already disclosed, and you did not know about it. 
 
 
READ“Full disclosure”. Dating advice from Aish.com



Bioethics: Abortion and Jewish Law (1 of 4).

The case of abortion primarily discussed by the Talmud refers to what we call today “therapeutic abortion”, i.e., when the life of the pregnant mother is in danger, and the doctors estimate that the only way to save her life is by taking out/killing the unborn baby.  Independently of how Jewish Law considers the status of an unborn baby–we will analyze that later on–in this case, the early Talmudic sources (Mishna Aholot, 7:6, written ca.200 CE) already established unequivocally that if necessary, the unborn baby should be sacrificed in order to save the mother’s life.  The Mishna understand that this is a case of rodef (“chaser”, a potential killer) and therefore the principle of “self defense” is applied: If  A is attacked by B, if necessary, A can kill B to save his life (habba lehorgekha, hashkem lehorgo, Sanhedrin 72a). The baby, ironically, is viewed as an “involuntary” rodef
The Talmud analyzes the Mishna’s statement and asks what happens when the baby is actually at the very process of birth. Should we still apply the same criteria of self defense and allow to sacrifice the life of the baby to save the life of the mother? After all, in this extremely difficult situation, the mother is also a rodef toward the unborn baby! The answer of the rabbis, in very simple terms, is that before the baby is born, the life of the mother has priority, because the life of the baby is still a ‘potential life’. But once the baby is born, i.e. when at least the head and /or the majority of the body is already outside, his life could not be sacrificed, and both mother and baby are in an equal situation. The doctors should try their best to save both lives.
(Adapted from penine halakha, Rabbi E. Melamed, liqutim B, page 241-242).   



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Shema Israel: Pasuq 3: “Words and the heart”

In previous weeks we’ve learned from Verse One the principles of Jewish faith (see here) and from Verse Two our duty to love our God (see here). Today we will analyze Verse Three. 
 “And these words which I command you this day, shall be upon your heart”.
The words which are to be upon our hearts are the words: “You shall love HaShem your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might.”
What does it mean: “that these words should be over the heart”? It means that love for God must rule over our hearts and shape our conduct. Merely saying ‘with words’ that we love Him is not enough. Our actions, what we do, must prove our words and feelings. Same as in a relation between husband and wife, feelings only count when they are expressed by compatible actions.   When our words conflict with our deeds, what count is our deeds. Children know this better than anyone else. They are the best polygraphs! They don’t listen to what parents say: the see what we parents do.  We don’t need words to transmit religious values to our children. They will not necessarily follow our preaching, but they will surely imitate our doing.
These words… should be over the heart… Loving haShem with ALL our heart means that we should avoid wrong thoughts–like excessive material ambitions– and wrong feelings–like jealousy or hatred– to take over our heart. Wicked thoughts and wrong values drive love for God out of our hearts. So, even when we cannot help wrong thoughts and negative feelings coming to our heart, we can, and must, prevent them remaining in our hearts.
  
(Adapted from R. Hayim Pereira-Mendes: “Jewish Religion Ethically Presented”)
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Rabbi Isaac Lampronti (1679–1756)

 

Rabbi Isaac Lampronti was born in Ferrara, Italy.  He studied Torah under the great Italian rabbis of his generation: Manoach Provençal and Isaac Chayim Cantarini. In addition, he studied philosophy and medicine at the University of Padua.  Padua was an important center for Hebrew studies by virtue of its rabbinical academies and the fact that Jews were drawn there from all over Europe to study in its university, which was open to Jews.
At the age of 22, he began to teach in the talmud torah of the Italian community. He introduced many improvements in the curriculum, insisting on the teaching of the humanities concurrently with the study of Torah. In 1718 he was ordained rabbi and in 1743 was appointed head of the Yeshivah – a position which gave him the status of senior rabbi of the city.
Rabbi Lampronti practiced as a physician. He was an outstanding doctor who gave his services for free to those of limited means.  He had a great reputation as physician, and his contemporaries generally added to his name the epithet “the famous physician.”
Rabbi Lampronti’s main reputation, however, rests on the fact that he wrote the first Jewish Encyclopedia Pachad Yitzchaq. Pachad Ytzchaq  is arranged alphabetically, each article including material from the Mishnah, the Talmud, the posekim, the rishonim, and the responsa literature.
In 1872, the city of Ferrara publicly honored the memory of Rabbi Lampronti. A stone tablet was placed on the house in which he had lived bearing the following inscription: “Abitò in questa casa Isacco Lampronti, nato nel MDCLXXIX., morto nel MDCCLVI. Medico Teologo tra i dotti celebratissimo. Onorò la patria. Riverenti alla scienza alcuni cittadini posero MDCCCLXXII.”
See here the First Edition of Pachad Yitzchaq, Venecia, 1750 



The 13 principles of Judaism: 3. God does not have a body

 

“The Creator, blessed be His name, has no bodily form, and bodily conditions cannot affect Him; He cannot be compared to nothing whatsoever.”
Attributing to God a human image, figure or condition is called: “anthropomorphism” and it is one of the most characteristic features of pagan religions. The pagan gods are born and die, have desires, fight with other gods, and have bodies. They are in a sense a reflection of those humans who conceive them.
The Tora, numerous times uses references to what seems to be God’s body,  like “haShem’s eyes watch over the land of Israel” but our tradition explains unequivocally that those are just figures of speech, metaphors, and should not be taken literally.
While other religions conceived their gods in the image of humans, our Tora says that humans were created in the image of God  (Bereshit 1:27). Let me explain this concept. God is the epitome of power, which means that He can do whatever He decides to do, without being pushed or constrained by any exterior impulses or even motives. This is why we call Him “Almighty”. Of all creatures of earth, only humans have the power of “freedom of choice”, choosing between right and wrong. Humans resemble God in that they are not driven by blind uncontrollable impulses, like animals. Like God, humans have the power of making moral choices.  The more we exercise this power the more we resemble God, and the less we exercise this power and let ourselves be driven by our impulses, the less we resemble God.
In the beautiful words of Rabbi Hayim Pereira-Mendes: “When the Torah says we are created in the image of God, it means not in a bodily but in a spiritual likeness. To be like God we must lead lives that are Godlike or Godly. We are like Him when we exercise loving-kindness, justice and righteousness and take delight in these things.” 



Rabbi Yehudah Aryeh mi-Modena (Venice 1571–1648)

 

Rabbi Yehuda Aryeh (Leon) mi-Modena was born in Venice in 1571.
A prodigious child, he studied Bible, Hebrew language, poetry, letter writing, voice, music, dancing, Italian, and Latin. At the age of 13, he wrote a short book, sur me-ra’, on compulsive gambling and its destructive power.
Modena was commissioned to write for James I a description of Judaism, the Riti Ebraica, the first vernacular description of Judaism written by a Jew for a non-Jewish audience, first published inParis in 1637 and subsequently republished and translated many times.
From his ordination in 1609 until his death, Modena served as the chief Hebrew translator for the government and Cantor of the Italian synagogue.  He ordained candidates for the degree rabbi, including medical students in Padua. He approved the decisions of other rabbis, and authorized books for publication, with the result that by 1618 he was referred to as a gaon, and an excellent, well-known, honored and brilliant preacher. By 1627 Rabbi Modena signed his name first in order among the Venetian rabbis. In 1628 he was maestro di cappella for a Jewish academy of music, Accademia degli Impediti, which was popular both inside and outside the Venetian ghetto.
He also produced an autobiography, Chaye-Yehuda which was recently translated into English, documenting in poignant detail the turbulent life of his family in the Jewish ghetto of Venice. The book also contains accounts of Modena’s sorrow over his three sons: the death of the eldest from the poisonous fumes of his own alchemical laboratory, the brutal murder of the youngest, and the exile of the remaining son who traveled as far as South America.
Rabbi Modena died in 1648.
Click here to read the book sur me-ra’, a philosophical dialogue against gambling, written by Rabbi Modena at the age of 13. This is the version published in Vilna in 1896.
 
 
His writings include: 
 
Magen va-hereb, where Rabbi Modena criticizes Christians interpretations of Hebrew scriptures, refuting their claims and dogmas.
 
She’elot u-Teshubot Ziqnei Yehuda, Collected Responsa on various ‘modern’ subjects.
 
Bet Lechem Yehuda, an anthology of statements of Talmudic Rabbis organized around ‘en ya’aqob.
 
Tzemach Tzadiq, an Ethical Treatise.
 
Leb ha-Aryeh,  a monograph on memory improvement and mnemonics, in which he greatly extols the use of memory techniques to remember the 613 commandments.
 
Pi ha-Aryeh, an Italian-Hebrew dictionary of all difficult words in the Tanakh



Shema Israel. Pasuq 2. “You shall love HaShem your God”

The words of the Shema Israel are so important that we say them three times a day, every day of our lives.
The first thing we are taught in the Shema is to love God.
“You shall love HaShem your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your might.” 
To love God “with all our heart”   How can you make sure that you really love HaShem? When you are happy doing what is right in His eyes, and unhappy when you do what is wrong in His eyes.  On the contrary, if you feel obligated but unhappy to do what is right in His eyes, then you might “fear” God, but not “love” God.
To love God “with all our soul” means to love Him so sincerely that we will willingly give our life for Him.   Our ancestors risked their lives and were willing to be killed in order to remain Jewish. If so many of our ancestors gave up their lives for the sake of HaShem, should not we be willing to live our lives for the sake of HaShem?
Loving HaShem with “all our might” means: with all our possessions, our money, our time.  In this sense we should understand “to love God” as “to prioritize God” over our possessions, our money, our time.  The strength of our love for God is proved by the greatness of the sacrifices we are willing to make for Him.
J.B. 2021
To love means you should sacrifice for your loved one, what is more precious to you.
בכל לבבך With all your attention:
ובכל נפשך With all your time:
ובכל מאודך With all your possessions
Listen and learn the first part (perasha) of the Shema Israel, Sephardic style. 
  



Practical Monotheism

 

The following lines are quotes from the  book ” The Jewish religion ethically presented” written by Rabbi Hayim (Henry) Pereira Mendes in New York, 1904.
“You shalt not have any other gods before Me.
“This commandment teaches us that there is only one God. He is our God and we do not believe that there are any other gods. Therefore to worship any being except the one and only God, is a sin. It is called idolatry”.
“Self-Conceit, to give way to violent outbursts of passion, etc., are declared by our sages to be tantamount to idolatry. For the former shows that self, and the latter that passion, is a greater power with us than God is”.
“If we believe in the one true God, we can prove it by not neglecting or disobeying Him for the sake of anything. Many neglect Him for the sake of business, or pleasure, which is as much as saying that business or pleasure is a greater power than God”.
The descendants of Abraham Abinu are called to be “a blessing to the nations of the earth, preserving for mankind the knowledge of God… Our ten Commandments are recognized as fundamental among all civilized nations. The wisdom of our Torah is recognized universally. The ideals of our Bible are the ideals of humanity. And our Psalms are read and sung in worship in countless cathedrals and churches- while they comfort and inspire countless hearts and homes.”
“We will continue to be a source of “blessing to all the families of the earth”… by showing through the lives we lead, the wisdom and beauty of our Torah, and the ethical value of our religion and its ceremonies; by our loyalty to the ideals of our Bible- and by our standing at all times for God and Justice. When Jewish life means honor, when Jewish homes mean love, and when Jewish citizenship means righteousness- then Jewish example becomes a source of blessing to “all the families of earth.”



Organ donation cards

In the previous weeks (see here), I explained the opinions of the Rabbis regarding living organ donation, and the differences on opinion over the determination of the moment of death, which affects the Rabbis’ ruling on cadaveric organ donation.
In our days, the willingness to donate one’s organs is stated in the driver license or in a card that one carries in his or her wallet.  The practical question we will address today is, what is the best way to declare that one wishes to donate his or her organs.
In my opinion, the best recommendation (and what I have personally done) for a Jewish person who wishes to donate his organs, is to register in the Halachic Organ Donor Society, and to carry their card in his wallet. 
The advantages of this card, compared to the general statement written in the driver license, is that the HODS card specifies the following points:
1. Organs should be removed only if they are to be transplanted, not for research or experimentation.  Due to the importance Judaism gives to the integrity of the body at the time of burial, only the possibility to save a life outweighs those concerns. 
2. To insure that medical care is not compromised in most sensitive moments, the HODS card specifies that:“Transplants may commence only after a medical team, that is independent of the attending physicians and that is unaware that I am a potential organ donor, determines death ….”
3. It also indicates that the body damage should be minimized: “All medical procedures must be done with proper respect, and minimum damage, to the cadaver.” To this effect, consultations will be made with a family-appointed rabbi.
4. Finally, it gives the carrier the option to choose between one of the two major Halakhic opinions prevalent on determination of death:  a. Irreversible termination of  breathing activity, for those who follow the more stringent rabbinic opinion, or b. Irreversible brain stem death, for those who follow the Chief Rabbinate of Israel’s opinion.  
Each person should consult with his or her Rabbi to make a final decision on this delicate issue. 
  


For those who wish to register as potential Halakhic organ donors, see here . 
For Israel, see here
May Hashem bless all of us with good health and a long life!
*Read more on organ donation from a Jewish Orthodox perspective, by rabbi Moshe Tendler 
*For Israel see here