The Ten Commandments: what makes them special?

As a preparation for the festival of shabu’ot, less than three weeks away, I will begin today a review of the Ten commandments.  
The Ten commandments were given to the Jewish people at the climax of the covenant celebrated between the Children of Israel and God (Ex. Ch. 19, 20).  The Ten Commandments represent a sample of the entire Tora.  While Christian tradition stresses the importance of the Ten Commandments to the exclusion of the other commandments of the Hebrew Bible, for Jewish tradition the Ten commandments are obviously an essential part of the Tora but every other Biblical precept is of no less importance.  To emphasizes this concept and express the Jewish belief on the uniformity of the Tora, Maimonides forbade to stand up while the Ten commandments are read in public in the Synagogue. Lest we will be led to believe that the other 603 precepts belong to a lower category. 
What is it special about the Ten commandments then? 
First, that while all other Mitzvot were given to the people of Israel through the mediation of Moshe Rabbenu, the Ten Commandments were meant to be given by God Himself. At the end, as the Tora explains, only the first two commandments were given directly by God. Why? The people of Israel explicitly requested to hear the Commandments from Moshe because the experience of God’s revelation resulted overwhelming. Ex. 20:19 “And they said to Moses, ‘Speak to us yourself and we will listen. But do not have God speak to us or we will die’.”  
According to Jewish tradition the Children of israel requested Moshe’s mediation after the first two commandments were given. This is why only the first two commandants are formulated on the first person (“I’m HaShem your God”… “You shall not have any other gods before Me”) but from the third commandment Moshe is addressing the people of Israel and refers to HaShem in the third person (“You shall not take the name of God in vain”). 

 




TEFILA: What shoes are you wearing today?

כשהוא נועל את נעליו, הוא אומר: ברוך שעשה לי כל צרכי
As we have previously explained (see this) birkot haShahar describe all the activities (mini activities) that we do when we get up in the morning as we prepare ourselves for the new day. The Berakhot help us to discover God’s hand behind each small act we are able to perform: opening our eyes, standing straight, stepping on solid ground, being able to walk, etc.  
Today’s berakha corresponds to the wearing of the shoes. 
“When he wears his shoes he says: Blessed are You haShem… Who provided for all my needs.” 
In the Talmud Shabbat 129a the rabbis explained that a person who does not have shoes should be wiling to sell everything else he has in order to buy a pair of shoes.   Shoes are a primary element of protection  for our bodies. The epitome of a needy man is a man without shoes. As seen in this bearakha having shoes is equivalent to having all our basic needs covered.     This is why when we wear our shoes in the morning we say this berakha, thanking haShem for the privilege of having everything we need.   
Today, at least for most people reading this email, shoes are not a luxury. Our problem in the morning is not if we do have or don’t have one pair of shoes to wear, but rather which one of the ten pair of shoes we own are we going to use this morning.  It is extremely difficult to value something while we have it. And especially when we have it in such excess. If this berakha many years ago expressed our sincere thanks for having shoes, today this berakha should educate us -privileged  humans living in the affluent 21 century- to not take our blessings for granted. Being thankful and appreciative to Whom has given us so much. 
Because shoes per excellence are leather shoes, during the days that we don’t wear leather shoes, Yom Kippur and Tish’a beAb, this berakha is not recited.  
 
 
 
 
Inspiring Movie
If you want to understand what having one pair of shoes really mean, please watch the movie:  Children of Heaven, the story of a little Iranian boy who lost his sister’s shoes and scared of telling his parents who cannot afford another pair, he and his sister try to manage without asking any adults for help, taking  turns to wear the same shoes. 

 




SHABBAT: Carrying an object outdoors

 Last Friday we began our overview of the melakha (=an activity which is forbidden to perform on Shabbat) named “hotza-a”, i.e., carrying, transferring an object from one domain to another domain.   The Rabbis distinguished between four different domains. 1. reshut ha-yahid a private domain , 2. reshut ha-rabbim, a public domain, 3. karmelit , the semipublic domain, and  4. meqom petor,  the exempted domain They specified case by case, in detail and at length all the different situations and laws pertaining to each category.
There is one particular case on which we will focus our attention first, because in our days and our urban reality, this is probably the most practical case: carrying an object within a public domain, which is also considered part of this melakha (MT Shabbat,  12:8).
But why would carrying an object in the public domain be considered as transferring it from one domain to another domain? Although this is classified as a legal axiom (Halakha leMoshe miSinai), the reasoning behind it is the following:  according to Jewish law a person standing in the public domain is deemed to create around himself a sort of a personal private domain in the area around his body. It is an abstract  perimeter of authority and liability. Jewish Law defines the area of this domain as a square of approximately six feet by six feet, each side (visually, and to be more precise,  it is the length of the person when he lays down on the floor with his arms extended. Thus, this square is slightly different in size from person to person).  Now, if for example two people, Mr A and Mr B, see a lost object in the street and both claim possession on that object, if the object happens to be within six feet of Mr A, he has the legal right to keep this object.
So, the six feet perimeter around me is an abstract reshut hayahid, i.e., my private domain within the public domain.  Now, this area is re-created anew every time the person rests on another spot of the public domain.  Therefore, if I carry an object from my present perimeter (Area 1) into an area more than  six feet away (Area 2) it is like transferring an object from one domain to another domain.  Consequently, for example, I am permitted to transport an object in the street within my own six feet: if I take my glasses off, I can carry them within my six feet but not beyond six feet.
(to be continued…)
Shabbat Shalom. 
Candle lighting in NYC:  7.19 pm
Shabbat Ends in NYC:  8.20 pm

 




Yom haZikaron 2013

 Israel Independence Day–YOM HAATZMAUT–which will begin tonight, celebrates the anniversary of the establishment of the State of Israel. 
  
Today, YOM HAZIKARON, the day preceding this celebration, is devoted to honor the memory of those who sacrificed their lives for the achievement of Israel Independence and its continued existence.
  
They are our heroes, and as Nathan Alterman called them: “The silver platter on which the State of Israel was given to us” (read here). 

In Israel tens of thousands of people attend the local cemeteries to mourn their children, grandchildren, parents, grandparents, and friends. 23.085 soldiers and victims of terrorism soldiers who fell on the wars of Israel from the Independence war in 1948 until today. 
In the morning, at 11.00 AM, a siren sounds across the country. Everyone and everything stops for two minutes: people, cars, businesses, public transportation, etc. honoring the memory of the fallen heroes. Many Israelis would spend the day at home watching on the Israeli TV the short clips prepared especially for the occasion, in which they show the lives, the bravery and the heroism, particularly of the 92 soldiers who were killed this year.
  
  
WATCH 
Michael Levin z”l  
Ro’i Klein, z”l   
Miriam Peretz 
The Story of Peretz family 
One family, memorial service  
  
Please, light a candle in their memory. 
  
May the Almighty treasure their souls in the Gan Eden.
May HaShem protect our soldiers and shield them from the hands of our enemies.   
May HaShem bring peace, everlasting peace, to Medinat Israel. AMEN.




SPECIAL EDITION: Yom HaZikaron, 2013

An intense and moving testimony of a Israeli mother, Miriam Peretz, who lost her TWO sons in the war. This is a solemn and deserved tribute to the fallen soldiers, z’l, and to the courage and unbreakable spirit of AM ISRAEL HAYOSHEB BEZION .




SHABBAT: “hotza-a”, introduction to the melakha of carrying.

 There are 39 activities that are forbidden in Shabbat (melakhot , see here). One of them is called in Hebrew hotza-a, i.e., carrying, transporting or transferring an object from one domain to another.
Although this melakha is not explicitly mentioned in the Tora (same as most of the 39  melakhot) there are a few places where this activity is seen as a melakha.  For example, when haShem sent the manna (heavenly bread, Ex. 16 ) which the people of Israel would gather everyday as their only source of sustenance, haShem forbade the people to gather, carrying and bringing home the manna on Shabbat. They had to relay on the manna of Friday, which consisted of a double portion.
A second source where carrying objects is called as melakha is found in Exodus 36:6. The people of Israel donated precious metals, fabrics, leathers, stones, etc. At one point, they realized that they had a surplus  of materials and Moshe ordered them to stop all melakha (as we know melakha defines the activities done for the building of the mishkan), the pasuq then says “vaikale ha’am mehabi” and the people, following the instructions of Moshe “refrained from bringing” any more things to the mishkan.
This melakha is so important (and its details so intricate) that the Mishna of Shabbat devotes to this subject five of its 24 chapters, and of course most of the tractate ‘erubin, ten chapters, are related to this melakha. Maimonides, in his Mishne Tora devotes to hotza-a eight out of 30 chapters and most of the eight chapters of hlkhot ‘erubin.
B’H in the following HOTD we will explain some of the details of this  melakha.
Le’ilui nishmat haRab haGa-on R’ Ya’aqob ben haRab Obadia Yosef, z’l.  
 
Shabbat Shalom!
Candle lighting in NYC:   7:12 pm
Shabbat ends in NYC:     8:13 pm
 
 
WATCH here Hilkhot Shabbat from rabbi Ya’qob Yosef z”l (Hebrew).

 




Pirqe Abot 2:2, Rabban Gamliel vs. Intellectual Arrogance

“Rabban Gamliel the son of Rabbi Yehuda the Prince, said: The study of Tora is good combined with the good ways of the world (derekh eretz), when one endeavors in both of them, sin disappears.” 
Rabbi Ytzhaq Magriso, the author of the commentary of me’am lo’ez to Pirqe Abot, explains in his words what we call today “intellectual or academic arrogance”.
This Mishna is addressing those who might “think highly of themselves because they are learned and consider themselves to be above the general populace at large. This attitude leads to arrogance, which is a very bad trait.  When a scholar studies he must do so with humanitarian outlook. Together with his studies he must learn to be humble and able to get along with people.  When a scholar sees someone doing wrong and wishes to correct him, he should not do so with strong language and disrespectful tone. rather, it should be with a sweet language and in a calm tone”.
On the same note, in August 2012, a teacher confesses her mishaps in this field: “The philosopher Foucault pointed out that knowledge and power are so intimately related that we cannot really think about them separately. .. Arrogance is the Dark Side of knowledge and students, no matter how old, can become scared of you because you have power just from being a teacher.” (see the rest of the article here ).
Rabbi Magriso concludes that a humble teacher or rabbi will make sin disappear: “Since he shows respect for the public and speaks to them in kind terms, they hold him in regard and esteem him. Then, when he admonishes them for some error,  they will heed him and respect his views. Thus, the study of Tora and good manners can allow the scholar to banish sin”
 
 
 
 
READ here, when Israel paid the price for British academic arrogance. From NYTIMES (2006)
Pirqe Abot   English translation online, by Chabad.org
MUST WATCH “Don’t be too late”
Rabbi Lau exhorts President Obama to remember the lessons of the Shoah

 




Pirqe Abot 1:7, friendship and second-hand smoke

 To prepare ourselves for the day of Shabu’ot, the day we received the Tora, it is customary to study pirqe abot, the “Chapters of the Fathers” which is a tractate of the Mishna composed around the Second Century.  This Mishna does no deal with the technical details of the observance of specific Mitzvot, as usually the Mishna does, but with practical Jewish wisdom, values and mores.      
There are many excellent English translations and commentaries of pirqe abot. My favorite is the Me’am Loez, written by rabbi Ytzhaq Magriso, 18th century, Turkey. He wrote his commentary originally in Ladino (Judeo- Spanish) and the book was published in 1747.  Today we have a beautiful English translation of his book done by rabbi Aryeh Kaplan, z’l (see here).
Let me share with you a few insights from this book
The Mishna 1:7 talks about bad neighbors and bad friends. Exhorting us to be careful when choosing our company (or our children’s company!).
*Rabbi Magriso warns of the danger of bad influences. Influence, positive or negative, is not perceived while taking place. We might realize the effects of bad influences on us or our children when it is already too late. Bad company is like second-hand smoke: I will bear the effects and consequences of smoking cigarettes even though I, myself, did not smoke.
*The Mishna warns us to keep away from a bad neighbor. Rabbi Magriso offers his interpretation of a bad neighbor.  In his opinion a bad friend or neighbor is defined, primarily, by his or her character. A bad friend is an individual who suffers when sees you happy. Find neighbors and be among friends who are not jealous of you, and save yourself from a lot of trouble!
*Anticipating the era of Facebook, rabbi Magriso also sentenced: What is the best way to asses someone’s character? What is the way to see if our children are in a good path? Look at his or her friends. Your circle of friends is the best indicator of who you are. Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are (or who you are about to be!)
                           
Pirqe Abot   English translation online,  by Chabad.org
MUST WATCH “Don’t be too late”
Rabbi Lau exhorts President Obama to remember the lessons of the Shoah

 




The Habdala Ceremony

   Previously, we saw the different opinions regarding the time Shabbat ends ( see here). We also began to explain the Habdala ceremony, which is the official way we depart from Shabbat, and the fulfillment of a biblical commandment ( see this  ).
Before we do the Habdala ceremony we pray Tefilat ‘arbit, as we do every night, including a special text: “Ata honantanu”, which means”You, haShem, granted us wisdom and understanding… enabling us to distinguish between light and darkness, between the holy and mundane and between the Seventh day and the rest of the week…. “. By reciting this text we acknowledge the distinction between Shabbat, ending as we speak, and the rest of the week, that is beginning right now.   In ancient times, when the Jewish people were such a difficult financial situation that they were not able to afford wine for the hadbala, the Rabbis (anshe keneset hagedola) did not require to perform the Habdala ceremony, but just the recitation of Ata honantanu.
Because we love Shabbat and we have a particular instruction to add some time from the weekdays (Friday and Sunday) to Shabbat we do not rush to pray ‘arbit. On the contrary, we actually recite some Psalms from Tehilim (leDavid… laMnatzeah) and the Hazan sings the qaddish and other prayers with a slow melodie, to delay the end of Shabbat.
After the ‘arbit prayer, the custom is that the Hazan recites the Habdala for all the congregants in the Synagogue.  Particularly for those who for any reason will not recite the Habdala at home.
Therefore, all those who listen to this Habdala with the intention of being included in it, fulfill the Mitzva of Habdala (even if they did not drink from the wine).
Now, those who already participated in this public Habdala, can still do Habdala at home for their family members.
The correct custom, following the shulhan ‘arukh, is to say or listen to the Habdala while seated.
Shabbat Shalom!
Candle lighting in NYC:   7.05 pm
Shabbat ends in NYC:      8.06 pm
For Minhaguim of Sefirat ha’Omer see  THIS
For Sefirat ha’Omer app for your Iphone, Ipad click here
For Sefirat ha’Omer reminder app for your android see this

 




PESAH: List of approved foods and products for 5773

 The foods and products described in the following list do not contain Hametz and are authorized for Pesah 5773.
The products mentioned in this list do not bear a special Kosher for Pesah certification. They should be bought before Pesah begins. They can only be used if the package is new and unused. 
The authorization of these articles is only for Sephardim and it is based on information obtained from Kosher for Pesah lists elaborated by experts Orthodox rabbis.
Rabbi Yosef Bitton 
Click HERE to download the list of Products for Pesah 5773/2013