BIRKAT HAGOMEL: Differences between Sephardic and Ashkenazi traditions

As explained before, the blessing haGomel is recited as a public expression of gratitude to God.

HaGomel therefore, should be said in the presence of a minyan (ten men). Although technically you can say haGomel in any instance where a Minyan is present, the custom is to recite birkat haGomel when the Sefer Tora is read.

Let us now explain in what circumstances is appropriate or justified to say haGomel.

There is a fundamental difference between Sephardim and Ashkenazim regarding the recitation of haGomel. For the Ashkenazi tradition, haGomel is recited only when one recovered or was saved from some sort of a life-threatening situation. For the Sephardic custom, haGomel is recited in four scenarios (imprisonment, illness, traveling, sea crossing) even when one’s life has not been compromised.

Examples:

According to the Sephardic custom haGomel is recited for any illness that required bed-rest. The Shulhan ‘Arukh (219: 8) explains that even if one’s life or health has not been compromised, if the illness or the medical treatment required bed rest or hospitalization, haGomel should be recited. According to this custom if one was sick with the flu or a stomach virus, etc. and had to spend even one day in bed, he should say haGomel. Many Sephardic Jews follow the custom of the Ben Ish Hay who slightly disagrees with the Shulhan ‘Arukh and says that the recitation of haGomel is required only if one had to be in bed rest at least for three days.

According to the Ashkenazi tradition, haGomel should be recited only when one has recovered from an illness or after a medical procedure that carries some risk of life. For example, pneumonia or an infection that, if had not been treated could have involved a life threatening situation. Rabbi Eliezer Melamed gives another illustration of the application of Ashkenazi custom. He says that for a surgical procedure that required local anesthesia (=anesthesia applied only in the area of the body that will be operated) one should not say haGomel. But if the surgery demanded general anesthesia, then haGomel should be recited, because regardless of the disease’s risks, general anesthesia carries a surgical risk. He also clarifies that the general rule for the Ashkenazi custom is that haGomel should be recited when one has recovered from an illness which is serious enough to justify transgressing the Shabbat.

As the reader can see, there are many customs regarding the details of the recitation of haGomel. It is recommended therefore, that each individual follow the traditions already established in his or her own community.




Rabbi Yosef Albo (1380-1444) and the Disputation of Tortosa

Rabbi Albo’s was born in Monreal del Campo, a town in Aragon, Spain.  He was the student of the famous Sephardic rabbi and philosopher Hasdai Crescas. Rabbi Albo was the author of a very important book: Sefer ha’Iqarim, The book of Principles.  Among other things, in this book he reformulates the thirteen principles composed by Maimonides into three main “roots” or foundations.
These three “roots” are
1. Belief in the existence of God.
2. Belief in revelation (that the Torah is the word of God).
3. Belief in Divine retribution, as related to the idea of the immortality of the soul.
The difference between Rabbi Albo’s “roots” and Maimonides’ principles is basically technical.  Rabbi Albo also mentions the beliefs in God’s unity, incorporeality, God’s independence of time, and God’s perfection. But he considers these to be branches of the first principle, not roots.
Sefer ha’iqarim also delves into the  subject of the extent of our knowledge (=epistemology).  In his words:  “human intellect can not attain perfect knowledge and ethical conduct, since its power is limited…  therefore, of necessity, there must be something above human intellect through which knowledge and conduct can attain to a degree of excellence that admits of no doubt.” That “something” is of course, Divine revelation, i.e., the Tora.
THE DISPUTATION OF TORTOSA

Rabbi Yosef Albo is also remembered for his participation in the infamous “Disputa de Tortosa”.

This theological “debate” took place in the city of Tortosa,  Spain. It lasted for 67 sessions, between February 7, 1413 and November 13, 1414.  The debate was organized by the initiative of Pope Benedict XIII, also known as “Papa Luna”.
Twenty-two rabbis, representing the main communities of Aragon were compelled to attend the dispute, which was held entirely in Latin.  Rabbi Astruc haLevy, Rabbi Moshe ben Abbas and Rabbi Yosef Albo were among these sages. Rabbi Albo represented the Jewish community of Monreal del Campo.   The main speaker among the Jewish sages was rabbi Vidal Benveniste, who was fluent in Latin.
The man responsible to carrying out the dispute from the Christian side was Jerónimo de Santa Fe שר”י an apostate Jew who converted to Christianity. He aimed to demonstrate that the Talmud supported the idea that the Messianic prophecies were met with the coming of Jesus.  To sustain these absurd claims, Jerónimo would use forged Talmudic texts and interpret the Midrashim arbitrarily.
Soon, the rabbis found out that the idea of a disputation was a farce.  The rabbis were not allowed to defend themselves. When the rabbis tried to expose the forgeries of Jerónimo, the arbiters would claim that Jerónimo, a former Tora scholar,   was considered by them as the greatest expert in Talmudic literature. At one point, the Pope himself confessed to the rabbis that they were not expected to expose the Jewish faith and cause troubles to the Christians. They were brought there to be indoctrinated in the true Christian faith, so at their return to their cities, they will be expected to instruct their community members to embrace the Catholic faith.
While all these tortuous sessions were taking place, and taking advantage of the absence of the religious leaders, the Christian missioners would go to the Jewish cities and proclaim that “the rabbis were defeated”. In the Kingdom of Aragon, the most notable missioner was the infamous anti-semitic Vicente Ferrer (canonized as a saint in 1455).   Jews were asked to choose between the sword and the cross. The Jewish neighborhoods were looted, thousands of Jews were killed and many more were forced to convert to Christianity.
Finally, Jeronimo claimed victory. And his triumph, certainly, was endorsed by the arbiters and the Pope.  Following the Disputation, the Pope signed two edicts (bulls) 1. “Against Judaeos” to encouraged the forced baptism of Jews and 2. “Etsi Doctoris Gentium”, an executive order to burn all Jewish books, especially the Talmud.
In conclusion, far from being an objective theological debate, the Disputation of Tortosa was a cynical propagandistic attempt of the Church to  loot and convert the Jews of Aragon.



BIRKAT HAGOMEL: Understanding the “blessings”

A “Berakha” is a statement, a formula by which we bless God.  First, we need to clarify what does it mean to “bless God” ? Usually, it is the one with a higher merit or the authority who grants the blessing to the needy. So, what does it mean that we “bless” God? In Hebrew “Blessing God”, unlike blessing another human being, simply means that we acknowledging God as the source of all our blessings.

For example: When we say a blessing before eating a fruit: barukh Ata HaShem… bore peri haets, we are saying, “I acknowledge, I declare, that YOU are the Creator of the fruits of the tree.

All the bearakhot share the words Barukh Ata haShem…   which should never be translated as “Blessed BE You, HaShem”, as if we would be wishing God to have something He lacks ח”ו;  but “Blessed ARE You, HaShem…” in the sense of “You ARE the source of …..”.

The berakhot are recited mainly for three different functions.

1. Birkot hanehenim, are the blessings we recite before we enjoy a  material event, even simple, routinary occurrences . For example, before we eat, drink, or enjoy a pleasant aroma we say a berakha acknowledging God as the source of that material blessing.

2. Birkot haMitsvot, these are the blessings we recite when we perform one of God’s commandments.  For example, before we fix the mezuza in the doorpost we “bless God” saying asher qiddeshanu bemitsvotav vetsivanu liqboa’ mezuza. “It is YOU HaShem the One Who sanctified us with His Mitsvot, and it was YOU the One Who ordered us to place a mezuza in our doorposts.” In other words, I’m declaring that the reason I’m doing this act is because I’m following YOUR commands.

3. Birkot haShebah, are the blessings of praise.  We also use the formula of a berakha barukh ata hashem  to praise HaShem for the multitude of events, occurrences in the past and in the present, that we know of or that we experience every day. Again, we declare that YOU HaShem are the source of these events. And by reciting a blessing we train ourselves to perceive HaShem’s subtle and invisible intervention in our lives. Illustartion: All birkot hashahar, the blessing we say in the morning when we wake up, belong to this category. We bless haShem, for example, saying that He “restores life to the lifeless bodies”, in other words, when we wake up in the morning we realize, thanks to this berakha, that our inert bodies were inert and passive (see this) but now, HaShem has given us our souls back.

Although a berakha is technically a plain declaration (or for Maimonides a “sworn declaration”), many or probably most of the blessings could be also classified as statements of appreciation and gratitude.

There is one blessing in particular that is known as the blessing of gratitude per excellence. And that is birkat hagomel.

Next Monday, BH, we will begin to explain what are we saying in this beautiful berakha.




EMUNA: The name of HaShem

There are several names by which we refer to HaShem (=God). The most prominent name is A-M-O-N-A-Y (reading D for the M). As you can see, one should be very careful not to write down any of the names of HaShem (technically, there are seven such names as per MT, Yesode HaTora 6:2) in its original way because we do not want to risk that, inadvertently, one would erase HaShem’s name, which is an explicit prohibition in the Tora “lo ta’asun ken….” (Deut. 12:3-4).

The name A-M-O-N-A-Y is also known in Hebrew as the Shem HaMeforash, which means, the ineffable Name of God (“ineffable” means: too great or extreme to be expressed with words).  In Latin the Shem haMeforash is known as the “tetragrammaton”, which means, the name of four (tetra) letters (gramma).

There is more to the Shem HaMeforash.

In the Tora every word is written without vowels. We know how to pronounce the words of our Tora thanks to the Mesora, the “Masoretic tradition”, which records and preserves the vocalization and punctuation (te’amim) of every word.

In the Mesora, the Shem haMeforash has three vowels. But these vowels do not indicate the original vocalization of the Shem haMeforash; rather, those three vowels indicate the way this Name should be read.

Confused?

Briefly, there are a few words in the Tanakh that for different reasons are written in one way and read in a different way. This event is known in the Mesora as keri ukhetib, which means: “Although this word is written in this way, you must read in this other way”.  To signal this variation, the consonants of the written word are vocalized with the vowels of the word that should be read.

In the case of the Shem haMeforash, the most common case of keri ukhtib, the four consonants of God’s name are combined with the three vowels of the word A-M-O-N-A-Y: hataf Patah, holam haser and qamets. (It still might be confusing for the beginner to identify the first vowel, hataf patah, because the hataf patah  of the word A-M-O-N-A-Y (ֲא), must be entered under a yod as a sheva ( ְי ).

In the times of the Bet-haMiqdash the Cohen Gadol (High Priest) pronounced the Shem haMeforash with its original vowels, a tradition that was known only to the High Priests. When the name of HaShem was uttered during Yom Kippur all the people of Israel would bow down and prostrate while saying out loud barukh shem kebod malkhuto le’olam va’ed, which means “May the Glorious Name of His Kingdom be blessed forever”.  This beautiful praise also served to maintain undisclosed the original pronunciation of the Shem haMeforash.




PARENTING and the blessing of Shabbat, by Coty Bitton

We, parents, know very well what is the appropriate groundwork for a positive and loving relationship with our children. Personal attention. Listen to what they have to say. Being present. Showing them that they are our most important interest. We should give our  children what they need so much: our undivided attention But how difficult is apply this idea!  How often we go to sleep knowing that we behaved during the day  in ways that, far from bringing us closer to our children, created distance between us…
Why is it so challenging?
Our hectic schedules make this mission very difficult. Even when spending time with our children, it is almost impossible to disconnect from our worries and connect with them calmly, and fully, conveying to them “Here I am. I am all yours”. Instead, our children often perceive us distracted. We can give them anything except what they need the most: our time.
There is more: In this ambitious and industrious generation our children’s schedule is also very busy. Homework, tutoring, karate lessons, soccer games, birthday parties. They have to squeeze so many activities in so little time!
Our role as parents is getting increasingly challenging: there is no time to nurture a good relationship with our children. We operate as if our only job would be to get the child dressed, fed and out of the door on time for their next activity…. and we know very well what the solution is: slowing down, treasuring the moments that we have with our children, and enjoy… and let them enjoy the closeness of a happy, relaxed parent.
Easier said than done. We try, and sometimes we even succeed. But our brains are still wired to the many obligations that we have. Our lives are too complicated and we found ourselves  always running against the clock.
But HaShem really loves us. He is our heavenly Father. He loves us at least as much as we love our children. He gave us the Tora and the Mitsvot which beyond a system of laws for our behavior are also blessings for our lives.Think about the gift of Shabbat.
Our sages described the Shabbat as the “present That Hashem gave us from His treasures”. There are many details involved in the observance of Shabbat. One of them is that we create a special “space” of rest. A Shabbat Mode (it reminds me of the “Airplane Mode” not incoming business, nor outgoing business).   On Shabbat to slow down is not a choice. To be present for our kids is Shabbat’s “modus operandi”.  The gift of Shabbat is today more necessary than ever. We walk with our children to the synagogue with our ears free from headphones. We are not allowed to take care of our daily business. We must sit and relax as if all our bills have been paid, the work has been done and the house improvements have been taken care of. We have no occupations and no preoccupations. We are worries-free.
That is the best space for a bonding time with our children.
In the Shabbat table, our family’s altar,  we communicate, we share our respective weeks, we sing together, and more than anything else,  we have time to listen to each other! All this takes place in a peaceful and pleasant atmosphere, where no TV, iPhones, or X-Box are allowed.
This is one of HaShem’s greatest gifts.Today, more necessary than ever.



Rabbi Isaac Canpanton (1360-1463)

Rabbi Isaac Canpanton was born in Castilla, Spain (probably in Zamora) in 1360.  Rabbi Canpanton was known as “The Gaon of Castilla”. He witnessed the decline of Spanish Jewry, especially after the persecutions, mass-killings and forced conversions of the 1390’s, and the outrages of Vicente Ferrer y Ferrand Martinez.
Rabbi Canpanton directed the Yeshiba of Zamora for many years. He was succeeded by one of his disciples, rabbi Shemuel al-Valensi (=from Valencia) who headed this prestigious Yeshiba until the expulsion of the Jews from Spain in 1492.
Rabbi Canpanton probably wrote many books, but today we only know of one of his books,  Darkhe haTalmud (“A Methodology of the Talmud). Darkhe haTalmud is a short book which teaches the proper methodology to study and teach Talmud.  Incidentally, it also shows the way the Talmud was studied in Sepharad for centuries.  This book affected the way the Sephardic communities studied the Talmud after the expulsion from Spain in Salonica, North Africa and the Middle East. Rabbi Ya’aqob Berab, for example, who was one of the luminaries of Tsefat (Safed) in the 16 century, taught Talmud in his prestigious Yeshiba, following strictly the methodology of Darkhe haTalmud. Rabbi Yaaqob Berab was the rabbi who ordained Rabbi Yosef Caro, the author of the Shulhan ‘arukh, with the renewed semikha. In the Bet Yosef (YD Siman 275), Rabbi Yosef Caro mentions rabbi Canpanton with much honor and respect:  “הרב הגדול החסיד הר’ יצחק קאפאנטו”ן ז”ל היה נוהג לעשות כן”.

Rabbi Canpanton lived a long life, 103 years. He died in Peñafiel, Spain,  in 1463.

ספר דרכי התלמוד לרבי יצחק קנפאנטון

 

The book Darkhe haTalmud contains 15 short chapters. Most of them deal with methodological rules, to train the student to develop an active and critical study of the Talmud.  Rabbi Canpanton insists, for example, that the student has to read the text at least three times, paying very close attention to the language (diyuq) before he engages into any of the commentaries.  When the student reads the text he must ask himself several (=ten) questions: Who are the protagonists of the debate (the suguia)? What is the goal of this particular text? What novelty it comes to teach? etc. Only after that, he should proceed to read the commentaries. One of the most important didactic rules the book systematically presents is, in my own words, “anticipation”. Rabbi Canpanton teaches the student to read carefully the debates, the questions or the comparison between the texts and stop before reading further. Once the student understands the question, he must try to arrive on his own at the possible answers and solutions, anticipating the solutions the Gemara will possibly offer. This didactic rule is very effective because by trial and error the student learns to analyze his own thinking and eventually he will be able to integrate into his own mind the sophisticated Talmudic thinking.

Darkhe haTalmud also teaches some practical techniques to improve one’s memory and focusing abilities.

On chapter 12 Darkhe haTalmud examines the ways to study the commentators of the Talmud, for example, Nahmanides, Rishba. The author exhorts the reader to read the commentaries analytically, trying to discover what is the main novelty the author tries to teach.

On Chapter 14 the author clarifies some of the less known Talmudic terminologies.

The book is very short (less than 60 pages) , and written in a very easy Hebrew.
To download the book Darkhe haTalmud, click here.




EMUNA: Thinking about HaShem’s names

Last week we explained that the Shem haMeforash, the main name of HaShem, is written in one way and it is pronounced in a different way. The meaning of the name of HaShem as it is written means “The Eternal”, the One that was, is and will be. As such, when we read this name we remember that it is beyond our limited capacity to know Him or understand Him. We should be humble and in a sate of awe and submission (yr-at HaShem) when we realize that God is transcendent and beyond our comprehension.

But although written in a way that expresses the unbridgeable distance between Him and us,  we  pronounce His name in a way more accessible to us. We read His name A-M-O-N-A-Y (reading D for the M) which comes from the word ADON (Lord), He is our Master. We see HaShem as the Creator of the world, its Owner, its Master. The Eternal is recondite but the Master is accessible. He listens to our prayers. He loves us and cares about us. We can easily relate to our Master (ahabat Hashem).

According to the Shulhan ‘arukh (OH, 5:1), every time we pronounce this name of God we have to keep in mind these two meanings:  ADON haKol, He is our Master, and He is Eternal ( He is, was and will be).

These two meanings of the name of HaShem, obviously, complement each other.

In the same halakha the Shulhan ‘arukh explains the second most common name by which we refer to God: Eloqim. This name of HaShem means that He is all-powerful and Omnipotent.  When we pronounce Eloqim we have to think and remember that nothing is beyond HaShem’s possibilities or His knowledge. He knows what we do, even in our intimate life, and he knows what we think and what we feel. “Eloqim” remind us that we live (or we should live…) permanently under His sight. Keeping this in mind, should inspire us to do always what is correct in His eyes, and especially,  avoid  what is wrong in His eyes.

The Shulhan ‘arukh stresses the importance of thinking about these ideas when we say the names of HaShem.

The Midrash says that HaShem told Yesha’ayahu haNabi that some of His children praid to Him with their lips but not with their hearts (מצות אנשים מלומדה ).  In other words, they were reciting the prayers, but were not thinking about the meaning of those prayers. In this way, they did not allow the prayers to inspire them and realize, for example, that HaShem, although Infinite and Recondite, is close to us, He knows what we do, what we say, what we think.

HaShem, in Ladino

In Spanish, the name of God is “Dios”. But Sephardic Jews who spoke Ladino did not call HaSjem “Dios” but “Dio” (Buena semana mos de el Dió…etc.). Why? Because in Spanish, like English, the ending letter “s” signifies the plural, especially when the word ends with a vowel (casa/casas, hombre/hombres, sombrero/sombreros). They were therefore very careful to call HaShem “Dió” without the final “s”, to stress the singularity of God,  stressing in this particular way their Emuna in HaShem Ehad (HaShem is One).  




Preventive medicine

הויאל והיות הגוף בריא ושלם, מדרכי ה’ הוא , שהרי אי אפשר שיבין או יידע והוא חולה צריך אדם להרחיק עצמו מדברים המאבדין את הגוף, ולהנהיג עצמו בדברים המברים המחלימים

Besides being one of the greatest rabbis in Jewish History, Moses Maimonides (known in Hebrew as haRambam) was also a world-renowned medieval physician.

He was born in Cordoba, Spain in 1135.

Not much is known about his medical education, but it is thought that he read a great deal and was familiar with classic and contemporary works on medicine.  He grew up in times of poor healthcare, with infant and child mortality leading to half the population dying before they were 10 years old.

Soon after he arrived in Egypt (ca. 1165) he was appointed as the court physician to the Regent of Egypt while the Sultan (Saladin the Great) was fighting the crusades.  According to a letter written to his student Yosef ben ‘aqnin,  his daily duties to the Sultan would last from first light until well into the afternoon. He would then come back home where a long line of  patients were waiting for him, “both Jews and Gentiles, nobles and common people… friends and enemies”. Maimonides would treat them, many times without expecting any retribution, until well into the night,.

Maimonides was a pioneer in one very important field: preventive medicine.  Preventive medicine is all about keeping good habits.  What and how to eat; the duty to working-out and maintaining a good hygiene; etc.

Maimonides says that if a genetically healthy person follows his advices he would live a long life and most probably will never need a doctor.

Most of his recommendations for a healthy life are found in the fourth chapter of Hilkhot De’ot of his Mishne Tora.

He wrote this chapter as a physician and as a Rabbi.  In the first Halakha Maimonides explains that the duty of taking care of our bodies is a religious obligation. A requisite to properly serve HaShem.

Hilkhot De’ot, 4:1

Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of [serving] God – for one cannot understand or have any knowledge of the Creator, if he is ill – therefore, he must avoid that which harms the body and accustom himself to that which is healthful and helps the body become stronger.




MASHIB HARUAH: More on rain

As we have previously explained, our rabbis introduced two prayers for the rain in the ‘amida. One is barekh ‘alenu (the ninth berakha of the ‘amida), which is the blessing for our livelihood (parnasa). We ask God for “rain” and not for “customers” or “money” because in ancient times, when Israel was an agricultural society, everyone’s economy depended entirely on rain.  We ask HaShem to bless us with dew and rain which should come in a way of blessing (librakha). We request HaShem to give us rain in its time and in its proper measure. As it is written in the Shema’ Israel be’ito yore umalqosh, give us “in its proper time the strong rainfall (the first rain, which is very strong and helps to soften the land we need to plow) and then the soft rain, which is needed once the vegetation starts to grow (if we would get the mild rain at the beginning of the season, it will not be enough to soften the land.  And if we get the strong rainfall when the vegetation is growing, the rain will destroy the plants).

Now, the first time rain is mentioned in the ‘amida, is during the second berakha we don’t ask or request rain or anything else from God. We praise Him. We state that God is Omnipotent (=infinitely powerful) and that He uses His powers to sustain, maintain, support, cure, deliver, nurture, and revive His creatures.
This is the context in which we say “the prayer of praise for the rain” mashib haruah, umorid haGeshem, “[HaShem, You are the One] who makes the wind to blow, and the rain to fall”. In this context we are not asking for rain, we are expressing our appreciation for the fact that HaShem created rain.  We perceive rain as part of tehiyat hametim, “God’s power to restore life” , because only thanks to the rain the dry-land revives, the plants grow again and the living creatures of the world stay alive.

Rain is critically important for our survival.  And praising God for “rain” should be nothing short of natural and spontaneous.  In our days, however, we do not really appreciate rain. This morning, for example, is raining in New York city, and you don’t see people are excited and thankful to HaShem about it.  On the contrary. I would say that 99% of people are actually annoyed by the rain.

What kind of praise then, would one say for something that feels an annoyance more than a blessing?

Tomorrow, BH we will explore some of the wonders of the mechanism of precipitation which should help us to gaining a more positive outlook at the miracle of rain, and hopefully be able to praise HaShem for one of His main blessings to mankind.




Shemini Atseret and Simhat Tora

SHEMINI ATSERET

The day after the seventh day of Sukkot (also known as hosha’na rabba) we celebrate another Holiday: “Shemini Atseret” which  technically, is a different  and independent Holiday from Sukkot.

During Shemini Atzeret we do not have anymore the Mitsva of Lulab and Etrog.

As for the Sukka, in Israel during shemini atzeret the sukka should not be used. The meals should take place at home. If one would use the Sukka in Israel on Shemini Atseret it would incur into the prohibition of adding an additional Mitsva (lo tosif!).

In the Diaspora, however, because of the ancient calendar system, we still use the Sukka during the first day of Shemini Atseret, but without reciting any blessing.

As we explained yesterday, the end of Sukkot indicates the beginning of the new rain season.  This is why from the Musaf prayer of Shemini Atseret, we change the words morid hatal (You make the dew descend) for the prayer of the rain mashib haruah uMorid haGeshem, “You make the wind blow, and the rain descend.”

It is important to notice that at this specific point we are still not asking HaShem for rain. We begin by praising God for His wisdom and power to produce precipitation. By saying mashib haruah we are acknowledging God as the source of rain, and by extension, as the ultimate source of our livelihood.


SIMHAT TORA

In Israel the holiday of Shemini Atseret is also Simhat Tora.
Outside Erets Israel, as with any other holiday (=Yom Tob),  we celebrate the holiday for two days. The second day of Shemini Atseret is also known as Simhat Tora, when we celebrate the end of the annual cycle of Tora reading, and the uninterrupted beginning the new reading cycle, from Bereshit.

We sing and dance around the Tora, expressing our joy for being part of the people chosen by God to follow His Tora.

We should celebrate Simhat Tora with this real happiness:  “During Yom Tob a person should not drink too much… because drunkenness and frivolity is NOT part of the Mitsva of happiness, but foolishness and licentiousness…  and we were commanded to attain a level of happiness that is part of worshipping HaShem… and one cannot worship HaShem by frivolity and drunkenness”  (MT Yom Tob, 6:19).

As haRambam explained, a Jew does not need to get drunk to feel happy and/or to express this happiness. People who need to get drunk in order to feel happy do that because they want to “forget” who they are, turning off their senses and escaping the reality of their lives. We are AM ISRAEL, the chosen people. And even  when personally we might be living difficult times, we still derive immense happiness from the fact that we have the privilege to belong to the people of God.
Maimonides explains that our greatest joy derives from knowing that we have the privilege to serve God, as God wants to be served:  “The greatest way to worshiping God is by being happy because we are doing the commandments of God, and being happy because we love our God”  (MT H. Sukka veLulab, 8:15).

Don’t forget to do ‘erub tabshilin
This year 5775 Shemini Atseret falls on a Thursday (beginning Wednesday Oct. 15th at night) and Friday, followed by Shabbat. And although most of the cooking for these three days will be done before Sukkot begins, some of the cooking might be done also during Friday Oct. 17 in preparation for Shabbat (Oct. 18th).
As we know, cooking is allowed on Jewish Holidays (Yom Tob) as we learn from Shemot 12:16 “…You shall not do any work on these days [=Yom Tob], except preparing food for everyone to eat, this is the only thing it may be done for you” . However, our rabbis explained that it is only allowed to cook during Yom Tob whatever will be consumed during that Yom Tob, but we cannot prepare or cook on Yom Tob food that will be consumed after that particular day.  Thus, when a Holiday occurs on Friday we cannot cook from Yom Tob to Shabbat.   Unless an ‘erub tabshilin is prepared.
‘erub tabshilin consists in 1.preparing prior to Yom Tob some cooked and baked food, 2. declaring that we are preparing this food for Shabbat (there is a special blessing and text to say when we put together the ‘erub. See below ) 3. storing that food for Shabbat and 4. eating that food during Shabbat. Thus, when we begin cooking for Shabbat before the Holiday begins, our rabbis authorized to continue the preparation of food from Yom Tob to Shabbat.
In practical terms:  Wednesday October 15th, before sunset we should put aside a plate with some cooked and baked foods and keep this food for Sabbath. This plate is what we call the ‘erub. Since some food is already prepared for Shabbat before the Holiday, the cooking that will take place during the Holiday will be considered an addition or in more accurate terms an extension (the word ‘erub in this context means “extension”) to the food that has already been prepared before the Holiday began. Althought the rabbis forbade to cook from Yom Tob to Shabbat, they authorized to cook in order to add  more food to a meal that has already been prepared for shabbat.
 The following Berakha is recited while holding the plate with the foods (=’erub) in one’s hands:
“Baruch Ata A- donay E-lohenu Melekh ha’Olam Asher Qiddeshanu beMitsvotav veTsivanu AL MITSVAT ERUB”
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵֽינוּ מֶֽלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָֽׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו, וְצִוָּֽנוּ עַל מִצְוַת עֵרוּב
Then we read the following text in which we declare that by preparing this ‘erub we are allowed to do all necessary work and cooking from Yom Tob to Shabbat.
בַּדֵין עֵרוּבָא יְהֵא שָׁרֵא לָֽנָא לַאֲפוּיֵי וּלְבַשּׁוּלֵי וּלְאַטְמוּנֵי וּלְאַדְלוּקֵי שְׁרָגָא וּלְתַקָּנָא וּלְמֶעְבַּד כָּל צָרְכָּֽנָא, מִיּוֹמָא טָבָא לְשַׁבְּתָא
Then we place the ‘erub in the refrigerator and we keep it until Shabbat. For the concept of ‘erub to make sense we must eat that food at some point during Shabbat (October 17th at night and October 18th).
The general practice is to prepare the ‘erub with a cooked egg and one loaf of bread. Many people will also add meat, rice and other types of cooked foods.